My Life My Journey

小故事

2012-01-15T10:18:00.000+08:00

有一個人去應徵工作，隨手將走廊上的紙屑撿起來，放進了垃圾桶，被路過的口試官看到了，因此他得到了這份工作。

原來獲得賞識很簡單，養成好習慣就可以了。

有個小弟在腳踏車店當學徒，有人送來一部故障的腳踏車，小弟除了將車修好，還把車子整理的漂亮如新，其他學徒笑他多此一舉，後來雇主將腳踏車領回去的第二天，小弟被挖角到那位雇主的公司上班。

原來出人頭地很簡單，吃點虧就可以了。

有個小孩對母親說：「媽媽你今天好漂亮。」
母親回答：「為什麼。」
小孩說：「因為媽媽今天都沒有生氣。」原來要擁有漂亮很簡單，只要不生氣就可以了。

有個牧場主人，叫他孩子每天在牧場上辛勤的工作，
朋友對他說：「你不需要讓孩子如此辛苦，農作物一樣會長得很好。」
牧場主人回答說：「我不是在培養農作物，我是在培養我的孩子。」

原來培養孩子很簡單，讓他吃點苦頭就可以了。

有一個網球教練對學生說：「如果一個網球掉進草堆裏，應該如何找？」
有人答：「從草堆中心線開始找。」有人答：「從草堆的最凹處開始找。」有人答：「從草最長的地方開始。」
教練宣布正確答案：「按部就班的從草地的一頭，搜尋到草地的另一頭。」

原來尋找成功的方法很簡單，從一數到十不要跳過就可以了。

有一家商店經常燈火通明，有人問：「你們店裡到底是用什麼牌子的燈管？那麼耐用。」店家回答說：「我們的燈管也常常壞，祇是我們壞了就換而已。」

原來保持明亮的方法很簡單，只要常常更換就可以了。

住在田邊的青蛙對住在路邊的青蛙說：「你這裡太危險，搬來跟我住吧！」路邊的青蛙說：「我已經習慣了，懶得搬了。」
幾天後，田邊的青蛙去探望路邊的青蛙，卻發現他已被車子壓死，暴屍在馬路上。

原來掌握命運的方法很簡單，遠離懶惰就可以了。

有一隻小雞破殼而出的時候，剛好有隻烏龜經過，從此以後小雞就背著蛋殼過一生。

原來脫離沉重的負荷很簡單，放棄固執成見就可以了。

有幾個小孩很想當天使，上帝給他們一人一個燭臺，叫他們要保持光亮，結果一天兩天過去了，上帝都沒來，所有小孩已不再擦拭那燭臺，有一天上帝突然造訪，每個人的燭臺都蒙上厚厚的灰塵，只有一個小孩大家都叫他笨小孩，因為上帝沒來，他也每天都擦拭，結果這個笨小孩成了天使。

原來當天使很簡單，只要實實在在去做就可以了。

有隻小豬，向神請求做祂的門徒，神欣然答應，剛好有一頭小牛由泥沼裡爬出來，渾身都是泥濘，神對小豬說：「去幫他洗洗身子吧！」小豬訝異的答道：「我是神的門徒，怎麼能去侍候那髒兮兮的小牛呢！」神說：「你不去侍候別人，別人怎會知道，你是我的門徒呢！」

原來要變成神的門徒很簡單，只要真心付出就可以了。

有一支掏金隊伍在沙漠中行走，大家都步伐沉重，痛苦不堪，只有一人快樂的走著，別人問：「你為何如此愜意？」他笑著：「因為我帶的東西最少。」

原來快樂很簡單，擁有少一點就可以了。

人生的光彩在哪裡？

早上醒來，光彩在臉上，充滿笑容的迎接未來。

到了中午，光彩在腰上，挺直腰桿的活在當下。

到了晚上，光彩在腳上，腳踏實地的做好自己。

原來人生也很簡單，只要能懂得「珍惜、知足、感恩」你就擁有了生命的光彩。

宜蘭美食

2011-12-17T17:48:00.004+08:00

魚丸米粉

蒜味肉羹

白珍珠奶茶

北門綠豆沙牛奶

梅花湖

頭城城堡咖啡館

基隆夜市

仆肉大餐

茶叶大餐

太平山莊

25歲過後不再是孩子

2011-11-07T14:50:00.000+08:00

1.酒吧認識的女人多半就沒有必要再留電話了。

2.喝酒喝好，不代表喝完吐吐完喝，在量上占個老大。

3.告別網戀吧，相比之下家人介紹的對象還是可以看看，必竟知根知底比較把握，少走彎路。

4.周末有帶情人泡午夜場的錢，不如給母親買點水果買點菜，趁現在子欲養而親還在。

5.多賺點錢，但不要多到誰看上你，你都會覺得其只是看上你的錢的地步。

6.中年女人，實力比你雄厚，還是要選擇說不。因為你付出的一定比得到的會多。

7.你曾經背叛的女人請你回頭，對其說不。

8.穿著假名牌，不如一身便裝，但求幹凈整潔。

9.對於年少時向一個女人做過的錯誤的諾言，你要有勇氣違背它。

10.大事堅持原則，小事學會變通。

11.沒必要和女友爭個面紅耳赤，她錯了，你讓著，她會感激你，其實她知道是她不講理。

12.有錢買塊好表，比在自己有脖子上加條一指來粗的金鏈子讓人看著有品味。

13.別再動不動就想用武力解決問題，你不是泰森，也不是陳浩南。

14.不要愛上有家的女人，有一天你會覺得自己很白癡。

15.每年做個身體檢查，尤其是肝，肺，胃以及血壓。

16.偶爾和父親促膝喝點小酒，永遠比和一幫酒肉朋友，在一起買醉來得開心。

17.對於你真正要與其結婚的女友，要忠誠。

18.不要再認為你在玩別人的感情，對手可能比你道行要高。

19.愛她，要做好安全措施；不愛她，就更要做好安全措施。

20.不要再當月光族，你該學著攢些錢了。

21.十七八歲沒錢沒卡叫瀟酒，二十五以上沒錢沒卡叫沒安全感。

22.永遠記住，遊戲與麻將叫消遣，不要沈迷。

23.除非真有必要，一般人通常沒必要去買8888那樣的四聯號，否則見你其人，會以為你是賣卡的。

24.了解父母的身體狀況。

25.此時的你至少該有張駕照，無論你是否有車。

26.N個酒肉朋友，也比不上一個與你肝膽相照的真哥們。

27.輕易不要借錢，也輕易不要借給別人錢，除非你不指著他還。

28.不要才開始相處就要求你的女友洗衣做飯樣樣精通，結了婚她自然就會為你做這些。

29.不要強調結婚以後你的女友一定要孝順你的父母，人與人是相互的，只要你做到了，她也會的。

30.不要才開始相處就提結婚，也不要處了一年還不提結婚。

31.不要再想你這輩子必須找個張柏芝或李嘉欣，因為你不是周潤發。

32.如果你不是很有錢。買份保險，如果單位辦了社保，就不必了。

33.給母親花一塊錢母親的笑容也是發自內心的燦爛。

34.有自己去泡桑那的時候不如陪父親去洗個澡，給他搓搓背。

35.萬事隨緣，但不要放棄努力。

36.不要給自己太大壓力，不要學做李嘉成，李嘉成當初也不知他會是今日的李嘉成。

37.有剩余資金，可以考慮買家了。哪怕只夠付個首期。

38.無需把女人看得太復雜，人與人之間往往是彼此復雜化，當然，也不要當她們是白癡。

39.不要非等到情人節，才肯花個三頭五百去買花，平時的一塊巧克力，她也會笑逐顏開。

40.有和女友去開房的錢，不如存下來，假期時一起出去旅次遊，感情會更深。

41.幫女友家換個燈泡，有時比給女友買套SK2還來得實惠。

42.女友多再不是你可以驕傲的本錢，只會被認為老大不小了還沒個正事。

43.對女友好不是件磕趁事兒，尤其人多的時候，對女友呼來喝去，只會讓人覺得你很沒品。

44.此時的你再是閑人一個，沒人會再誇你是浪子。

45.不要今天中華明天生命源，不如固定在天天大雲的標準上。

46.假如你是中專以下學歷，那麽無論自考還是函授，還是提高一下，總有一天會有收益。

47.別瞧不起你正經上班的哥們，他們要找女朋友，比你有條件。

48.沒做到的事不要輕易承諾，承諾過了，假如可以，還是努力做到。

49.男人信譽很重要。

50.專一一點吧，沒什麽不好。

51.常關心一下你的女友，但關心不等於磨幾。

52.不要相信女人喜歡AA制，該買單的時候還是要買的，男人爽快還是很有吸引力的。

53.不要以為男人就可以不註重形象，女人也不是瞎子。

54.多半女人認為，男人認真的時候最有魅力，無論是認真工作，還是認真****。

55.男人的眼淚可以流，用得適當，效果很好。常流不止，結果就讓人作嘔了。

56.新聞實事必看，哪怕有些事情不是你能說了算的，但你得了解。

57.至少要保留一種健康的愛好，如：遊泳，足球，健身，藍球等。

58.不要羨慕誰的鐵子比你多，他們的鬧心事和這個數目也是成正比的。

59.永遠不要認為別人的老婆比你的好，因為她必竟不是你老婆。

60.鞋還是擦得光亮些吧，哪怕它不是名牌，也比一腳泥的AIDD還得順眼。

61.多誇誇你的女友，哪怕是偽心的，她的心情好了，你也輕松不少。

62.想繼續發展的女友最好帶給母親看一看，老人的眼睛有時候確實比你雪亮。

63.有聊QQ的時間，不如多看看新聞。

64.衣服不用一天一換，但也不要一周也不換一次。

65.和女友的女性朋友要保持一定距離，太遠她會說你對她朋友不熱情，太近事兒可就大了。

66.永遠不要誇你女友的女性朋友，那會是她最忌諱的事情，最好是不要評價。

67.沒有任何一件事，任何一個女人，值得你徹夜不眠或借酒澆愁。

68.人，就這一輩子，開心就好。

我要去蘭嶼/綠島

2011-08-20T15:19:00.003+08:00

蘭嶼

風味簡餐-飛魚炒飯，墨魚炒飯

早餐

熱帶魚民宿

綠島

綠島風味情餐廳-章魚哥，鹿肉炒飯

星光碼頭-海草豆花，海草冰

綠滿園-海海草麻署，海草酥

東升羊肉爐

美燕華浮淺

朝日溫泉

toro觀海民宿

鹿肉

长滩岛Boracay Island

2011-07-24T16:49:00.002+08:00

好野人

一号码头附近Hotel

西班牙餐厅

跳岛-海钓,PukaBeach,鳄鱼岩浮浅，Magic Island午餐，Spa

平价

芒果冰沙Fruitshake snack bar

D'talipapa market

Banca 300piso

Discovery Shores Boracay

Dos Z-Mestiso Mandala Spa & Villas

Microtel Inn & Suits Boracay
Jona's Fruit Shakes Guilly's Island

Plato D' Boracay Resto

酸碱性食物列表

2011-07-18T20:47:00.001+08:00

1. 蔬菜类
　　（1）属于寒性的碱性食物有：莼菜、马齿菜、蕺菜（鱼腥草）、蕹菜、番茄、佛手瓜、西葫芦、葫芦瓜、瓠瓜、甜瓜（香瓜）、哈密瓜、西瓜、菜瓜、竹笋、海带。
　　（2）属于凉性的碱性食物有：莲藕、魔芋、慈菇、粉葛、甜菜（紫菜头）、萝卜、苤蓝、旱芹、苋菜、茄子、莴苣（莴笋）、茭白、苦瓜、油菜、菠菜、蘑菇、生菜、菜花、金针菇、冬瓜、黄瓜、丝瓜。
　　（3）属于平性（阴性系列中属于比阴阳比阳阴的一种）的碱性食物有：百合、胡萝卜、大头菜、茼蒿、荆芥、白菜、甘蓝、猴头、黑木耳、荠菜、银耳、番薯（红薯）、马铃薯（土豆）、芋头。
　　（4）属于温性的碱性食物有：恰玛古、山药、洋葱、薤白（野蒜）、香椿、韭菜、雪里蕻、芫荽、甜椒、南瓜、生姜、葱。
　　（5）属于热性的碱性食物有：大蒜、辣椒、胡椒。
　　2.食用药材类
　　（1）属于寒性的碱性食物有：石斛、芦根。
　　（2）属于凉性的碱性食物有：菊花、薄荷、地黄、白芍、西洋参、沙参、决明子。
　　（3）属于平性（比阴阳，比阳阴）的碱性食物有：黄精、天麻、党参、茯苓、甘草。
　　（4）属于温性的碱性食物有：何首乌、砂仁、冬虫夏草、桂花、川芎、黄芪、人参、当归、肉苁蓉、杜仲、白术。
　　（5）属于热性的碱性食物有：肉桂。
　　3.水果类
　　（1）属于寒性的碱性食物有：猕猴桃、柿子、桑葚、无花果、甘蔗、香蕉、荸荠。
　　（2）属于凉性的碱性食物有：梨子、枇杷、橙子、柑子、芒果、罗汉果、苹果。
　　（3）属于平性（阴性系列中属于比阴阳比阳阴的一种）的碱性食物有：葡萄、山楂、石榴、木瓜、龙眼（桂圆）、槟榔、橘子、荔枝、柠檬。
　　（4）属于热性的碱性食物有：桃子、樱桃。
　　4.坚果类
　　（1）属于平性（比阴阳，比阳阴）的碱性食物有：大豆(黄豆)。
　　（2）属于温性的碱性食物有：栗子、杏仁。
　　5.饮料类
　　（1）属于凉性的碱性食物有:茶叶
　　（2）属于平性（比阴阳，比阳阴）的碱性食物有：葡萄酒、豆浆、牛奶、蜂蜜。
　　（3）属于温性的碱性食物有：咖啡。
　　6.制品类
　　（1）属于寒性的碱性食物有：食盐。
　　（2）属于温性的碱性食物有：食醋。
　　（3）属于热性的碱性食物有：食碱。
　　7.十字花科类
　　（1）萝卜干、红萝卜、红薯等。
　　(2)强碱：恰玛古等。
　　常见的碱性食物与酸性食物：
　　1.强酸性食品：蛋黄、奶酪、白糖做的西点或柿子、乌鱼子、柴鱼等。
　　2.中酸性食品：火腿、培根、鸡肉、鲔鱼、猪肉、鳗鱼、牛肉、面包、小麦、奶油、马肉
　　等。
　　3.弱酸性食品：白米、落花生、啤酒、酒、油炸豆腐、海苔、文蛤、章鱼,泥鳅。
　　4.弱碱性食品：红豆、萝卜、苹果、甘蓝菜、洋葱、豆腐等。
　　5.中碱性食品：萝卜干、大豆、红萝卜、蕃茄、香蕉、橘子、番瓜、草莓、蛋白、梅干、柠檬、菠菜等。
　　6 .强碱性食品：恰玛古、葡萄、茶叶、海带芽、海带，柠檬等。

食物酸碱一览表
强酸性食品：蛋黄、乳酪、甜点、白糖、金枪鱼、比目鱼、乌龟子，柴鱼。
中酸性食品：火腿、培根、鸡肉、猪肉、鳗鱼、牛肉、面包、小麦、奶油，马肉等。
弱酸性食品：白米、花生、啤酒、白、红、黄酒类、海苔、章鱼、巧克力、空心粉、葱、油炸豆腐、文蛤、泥鳅。

强碱性食品：葡萄、茶叶、葡萄酒、海带、柑橘类、柿子、黄瓜、胡萝卜、核桃。
中碱性食品：萝卜干、红萝卜、大豆、蕃茄、香蕉、草莓、蛋白、梅干、柠檬、菠菜等、橘子。
弱碱性食品：红豆、苹果、甘蓝菜、豆腐、卷心菜、油菜、梨、马铃薯、洋葱、南瓜子、葵瓜子、杏任、腰果、芝麻。

普吉岛

2011-07-17T10:28:00.002+08:00

巴东大街

Radisson Resort Villa

lock tien乐天hockkien mee

Coral Island

Rawai海滩BBQ

Duansuk BBQ Seafood

我要去花莲

2011-06-16T21:53:00.002+08:00

顺富裕刀削面

节约街43号阿公冰店

自强夜市-高大侠壳烧虾

后山老张烧饼店-星期2-6 0630-0930，1500-1800

葛玛兰风味餐厅-曼波鱼

我要去蘭嶼

2011-06-04T12:41:00.003+08:00

海草輕食館-台東

風車教堂-台東

豆芽菜

阿泉伯海燕窩

巴拉冠民宿

美亞美早點

人魚和貓

船長咖啡

黑妞浮淺

台東航空站

我要去夜市

2011-05-16T19:30:00.002+08:00

南崁五福路-五福夜市星期2星期5

罗宋面包

10块蜜汁烧烤-星期2 1800

佑专业烤鱿鱼星期2星期5

花枝旗鱼串星期2

林口长庚夜市星期1星期3

号外-竹林路旧夜市

章鱼烧

20块来来现做润饼星期3

新北市树林夜市天天开

阿义之腿库饭1800-2400

夜市外围-树林车站旁炸鸡排

我要去台北

2011-05-02T12:23:00.002+08:00

萬華龍山寺-鱸魚湯，高麗菜飯（早餐8點賣完）

長春四神肉粽-四神湯，肉粽

天母克强路-燈亮有餅-蔥油餅

士林後港/福中公園肉圓（摩托車）

東區-土三寒六烏龍面-cheese明太子干面

Chiffon cake

東區巷弄-胖子小吃-客家醬油魚，麻油腰花，客家小炒，薑絲大腸，蒜苗炒臘肉，苦瓜雞湯

廖家甜不辣

我要去基隆

2011-05-01T15:37:00.004+08:00

南荣路天桥下-豆花30

孝三路巷仔内-大肠圈60，鱿鱼羹汤30，猪脚面70

全家福元宵-酒酿加蛋汤圆80

情人湖公园-免钱

基隆庙口-22摊肉羹咖喱饭50，清炖鲜鱼汤？？

46摊虾仁肉羹55，鲁肉饭20

我要去曼谷

2011-04-30T21:24:00.002+08:00

铁道菜市场

卧佛寺

恰图恰周末市场-血拼 0800-1800

泰拳烤鸡

spring & summer restaurant草地赏星食尚甜点屋冰淇淋巧克力

双人房2400 slow life 02 6288188 phranakorn nornlen hotel

象神庙

光海鲜鱼如（Kwang Sea Food) 泰式盐烤鱼400，烤乳猪1100三吃，蒜蓉黑胡椒濑尿虾1400，咖喱炒肉蟹1200

Wat Pho Thailand?

我要去云林

2011-04-26T22:51:00.003+08:00

西螺

三珍醬油工廠-醬油膏

大屋菜根竹筍包

高香珍-老招牌百年餅店-肉餅

天瑤宮對面-陽春面，麻醬面，豆干，鴨肉湯

虎尾

莿桐

北港

日發新港飴，老鼠糖，老鼠飴

許一郎-小排飯，骨尾飯，土托魚羹（白），豬腳

啊世香菇肉羹-滷肉飯，香菇肉飯，香腸

我要去屏东

2011-04-24T20:52:00.001+08:00

屏东

万丹红豆饼-红豆，奶油，芋头，黑芝麻-10

阿国臭豆腐专卖店-臭豆腐大份-55

免费铁马出借-九如乡-后压代天府-08 7751639

长治乡繁华路水煎包-25，小煎包-30

屏北一带-薰之國香草农场

里港富記猪脚300+馄饨汤40

斯重溪清泉山庄4300，3600，2500平日70%温泉红豆汤-80宇治金时-120

民宅乳酪蛋糕

九份芋圆

花莲麻米暑

我要去大稻埕

2011-04-23T23:11:00.001+08:00

大稻埕

霞海城隍庙

民乐旗鱼米粉，小菜，红烧肉，鱿鱼，虾仁

靠近林森北路六条通鱿鱼羹

3月份花季阳明山泡温泉+赏花+套餐=880

宁夏夜市古早味豆花

我要去苏梅岛Samui 2

2011-04-17T16:30:00.002+08:00

阿公啊嫲石

拜大佛

Samui Monkey Theatre猴子學校300

Nameng - 大象700，帶防蚊液

越野車800

Bophut - Juzz'a Pizza Restaurant

Sa Biang Lay?

Akwa Guesthouse?

Ark Bar?

拉邁Sabienglae Restaurant - 黃薑沙魚,涼拌海鮮,酸子蝦

Chaweng Hotel 900-3000

拉邁步行街 sunday 1530-2300

月圓電音派對

掏來咖how much

空哭咖thank you

面试必问的16个经典问题的回答思路 copy from Alicia Qiqi 的網誌

2011-04-09T18:58:00.000+08:00

面试过程中，面试官会向应聘者发问，而应聘者的回答将成为面试官考虑是否接受他的重要依据。对应聘者而言，了解这些问题背后的“猫腻”至关重要。本文对面试中经常出现的一些典型问题进行了整理，并给出相应的回答思路和参考答案。读者无需过分关注分析的细节，关键是要从这些分析中“悟”出面试的规律及回答问题的思维方式，达到“活学活用”。

问题一：“请你自我介绍一下”

思路：

1、这是面试的必考题目。

2、介绍内容要与个人简历相一致。

3、表述方式上尽量口语化。

4、要切中要害，不谈无关、无用的内容。

5、条理要清晰，层次要分明。6、事先最好以文字的形式写好背熟。

问题二：“谈谈你的家庭情况”

思路：

1、家庭情况对于了解应聘者的性格、观念、心态等有一定的作用，这是招聘单位问该问题的主要原因。

2、简单地罗列家庭人口。

3、宜强调温馨和睦的家庭氛围。

4、宜强调父母对自己教育的重视。

5、宜强调各位家庭成员的良好状况。

6、宜强调家庭成员对自己工作的支持。

7、宜强调自己对家庭的责任感。

问题三：“你有什么业余爱好?”

思路：

1、业余爱好能在一定程度上反映应聘者的性格、观念、心态，这是招聘单位问该问题的主要原因。

2、最好不要说自己没有业余爱好。

3、不要说自己有那些庸俗的、令人感觉不好的爱好。

4、最好不要说自己仅限于读书、听音乐、上网，否则可能令面试官怀疑应聘者性格孤僻。

5、最好能有一些户外的业余爱好来“点缀”你的形象。

问题四：“你最崇拜谁?”

思路：

1、最崇拜的人能在一定程度上反映应聘者的性格、观念、心态，这是面试官问该问题的主要原因。

2、不宜说自己谁都不崇拜。

3、不宜说崇拜自己。

4、不宜说崇拜一个虚幻的、或是不知名的人。

5、不宜说崇拜一个明显具有负面形象的人。

6、所崇拜的人人最好与自己所应聘的工作能“搭”上关系。

7、最好说出自己所崇拜的人的哪些品质、哪些思想感染着自己、鼓舞着自己。

问题五：“你的座右铭是什么?”

思路：

1、座右铭能在一定程度上反映应聘者的性格、观念、心态，这是面试官问这个问题的主要原因。

2、不宜说那些医引起不好联想的座右铭。

3、不宜说那些太抽象的座右铭。

4、不宜说太长的座右铭。

5、座右铭最好能反映出自己某种优秀品质。

6、参考答案--“只为成功找方法，不为失败找借口”。

问题六：“谈谈你的缺点”

思路：

1、不宜说自己没缺点。

2、不宜把那些明显的优点说成缺点。

3、不宜说出严重影响所应聘工作的缺点。

4、不宜说出令人不放心、不舒服的缺点。

5、可以说出一些对于所应聘工作“无关紧要”的缺点，甚至是一些表面上看是缺点，从工作的角度看却是优点的缺点。

问题七：“谈一谈你的一次失败经历”

思路：

1、不宜说自己没有失败的经历。

2、不宜把那些明显的成功说成是失败。

3、不宜说出严重影响所应聘工作的失败经历。

4、所谈经历的结果应是失败的。

5、宜说明失败之前自己曾信心白倍、尽心尽力。

6、说明仅仅是由于外在客观原因导致失败。

7、失败后自己很快振作起来，以更加饱满的热情面对以后的工作。

问题八：“你为什么选择我们公司?”

思路：

1、面试官试图从中了解你求职的动机、愿望以及对此项工作的态度。

2、建议从行业、企业和岗位这三个角度来回答。

3、参考答案--“我十分看好贵公司所在的行业，我认为贵公司十分重视人才，而且这项工作很适合我，相信自己一定能做好。”

问题九：“对这项工作，你有哪些可预见的困难?”

思路：

1、不宜直接说出具体的困难，否则可能令对方怀疑应聘者不行。

2、可以尝试迂回战术，说出应聘者对困难所持有的态度--“工作中出现一些困难是正常的，也是难免的，但是只要有坚忍不拔的毅力、良好的合作精神以及事前周密而充分的准备，任何困难都是可以克服的。”

问题十：“如果我录用你，你将怎样开展工作”

思路：

1、如果应聘者对于应聘的职位缺乏足够的了解，最好不要直接说出自己开展工作的具体办法。

2、可以尝试采用迂回战术来回答，如“首先听取领导的指示和要求，然后就有关情况进行了解和熟悉，接下来制定一份近期的工作计划并报领导批准，最后根据计划开展工作。”

问题十一：“与上级意见不一是，你将怎么办?”

思路：

1、一般可以这样回答“我会给上级以必要的解释和提醒，在这种情况下，我会服从上级的意见。”

2、如果面试你的是总经理，而你所应聘的职位另有一位经理，且这位经理当时不在场，可以这样回答：“对于非原则性问题，我会服从上级的意见，对于涉及公司利益的重大问题，我希望能向更高层领导反映。”

问题十二：“我们为什么要录用你?”

思路：

1、应聘者最好站在招聘单位的角度来回答。

2、招聘单位一般会录用这样的应聘者：基本符合条件、对这份共组感兴趣、有足够的信心。

3、如“我符合贵公司的招聘条件，凭我目前掌握的技能、高度的责任感和良好的饿适应能力及学习能力，完全能胜任这份工作。我十分希望能为贵公司服务，如果贵公司给我这个机会，我一定能成为贵公司的栋梁!”

问题十三：“你能为我们做什么?”

思路：

1、基本原则上“投其所好”。

2、回答这个问题前应聘者最好能“先发制人”，了解招聘单位期待这个职位所能发挥的作用。

3、应聘者可以根据自己的了解，结合自己在专业领域的优势来回答这个问题。

问题十四：“你是应届毕业生，缺乏经验，如何能胜任这项工作?”

思路：

1、如果招聘单位对应届毕业生的应聘者提出这个问题，说明招聘单位并不真正在乎“经验”，关键看应聘者怎样回答。

2、对这个问题的回答最好要体现出应聘者的诚恳、机智、果敢及敬业。

3、如“作为应届毕业生，在工作经验方面的确会有所欠缺，因此在读书期间我一直利用各种机会在这个行业里做兼职。我也发现，实际工作远比书本知识丰富、复杂。但我有较强的责任心、适应能力和学习能力，而且比较勤奋，所以在兼职中均能圆满完成各项工作，从中获取的经验也令我受益非浅。请贵公司放心，学校所学及兼职的工作经验使我一定能胜任这个职位。”

问题十五：“你希望与什么样的上级共事?”

思路：

1、通过应聘者对上级的“希望”可以判断出应聘者对自我要求的意识，这既是一个陷阱，又是一次机会。

2、最好回避对上级具体的希望，多谈对自己的要求。

3、如“做为刚步入社会新人，我应该多要求自己尽快熟悉环境、适应环境，而不应该对环境提出什么要求，只要能发挥我的专长就可以了。”

问题十六：“您在前一家公司的离职原因是什么?”

思路：

1、最重要的是：应聘者要使找招聘单位相信，应聘者在过往的单位的“离职原因”在此家招聘单位里不存在。

2、避免把“离职原因”说得太详细、太具体。

3、不能掺杂主观的负面感受，如“太幸苦”、“人际关系复杂”、“管理太混乱”、“公司不重视人才”、“公司排斥我们某某的员工”等。

4、但也不能躲闪、回避，如“想换换环境”、“个人原因”等。

5、不能涉及自己负面的人格特征，如不诚实、懒惰、缺乏责任感、不随和等。

6、尽量使解释的理由为应聘者个人形象添彩。

7、如“我离职是因为这家公司倒闭。我在公司工作了三年多，有较深的感情。从去年始，由于市场形势突变，公司的局面急转直下。到眼下这一步我觉得很遗憾，但还要面对现实，重新寻找能发挥我能力的舞台。”

同一个面试问题并非只有一个答案，而同一个答案并不是在任何面试场合都有效，关键在于应聘者掌握了规律后，对面试的具体情况进行把握，有意识地揣摩面试官提出问题的心理背景，然后投其所好。

50Mila - Nina Zilli

2011-03-15T19:49:00.000+08:00

Cinquantamila lacrime non basteranno perchè

musica triste sei tu dentro di me.

Cinquantamila pagine gettate al vento perchè

eterno è il (enueli) ricordo, il mio volto per te.

Non ritornare, no tu non ti voltare, non vorrei mi vedessi cadere.

A me piace così, che se sbaglio è lo stesso, perchè questo dolore è amore per te.

Cinquantamila lacrime senza sapere perchè

sono un ricordo lontano da te.

Cinquantamila lacrime non basteranno perchè

musica triste sei tu dentro di me.

Non mi guardare, non lo senti il dolore, brucia come un taglio nel sale.

A me piace così, che se sbaglio è lo stesso, perchè questo dolore è amore per te.

A me piace così, e non chiedo il permesso, perchè questo dolore è amore per te.

我要去苏梅岛Samui

2011-02-27T20:31:00.003+08:00

Samui Cliff View Resort & Spa

Chaweng Beach, Chaweng Street

Koh Tao Nang Yuan 1 day trip (龟岛海鸥岛) Climb Mountain Sea View

Z'ico's BBQ

The Library Hotel

The Reue

Fair House Villa & Spa

海景餐厅- Lobster meal, Oyster, Salted Egg Sotong

43个妈妈可能没教到的人生细节

2011-02-20T17:55:00.001+08:00

1.去别人家里，不要坐在人家的床上。

2.在酒桌上与别人碰杯，自己的杯子一定要低于对方的，特别是对方是长辈或领导。

3.晴带雨伞，饱带干粮---未雨绸缪总是好的。

4. 如果问别人话，别人不回答你，不要死着脸皮不停的问。

5. 吃饭的时候尽量不要发出声音。

6. 捡东西或者穿鞋时候要蹲下去，不要弯腰撅屁股。

7. 别人批评你的时候，即使他是错的，也不要先辨驳，等大家都平静下来再解释。

8.做事情要适可而止,无论是狂吃喜欢的食物还是闹脾气。

9.到朋友家吃完饭,要主动帮忙洗碗清理桌子-----主人做饭已经很辛苦了,不能事后还让主人清理。

10.生活中会遇见各式各样的人,你不可能与每个人都合拍,但是有一点是四海皆准的:你如何对待别人,别人也会如何对待你。

11.待客不得不大，持家不得不小。

12.把拳头收回来是为了更有力的还击

13.人活在这个世上，首先要学会一个“忍”字。

14.任何时候对任何人不要轻易告诉对方你的秘密。

15.钱不是靠攒的，会花才会赚。

16.学无止境，不仅仅是学书本知识，更要学会怎么待人处事，社会远比你想象的要复杂。

17.不要跟同事议论上司或其他同事的是非，你的无心之言很可能成为别人打击你的证据。

18.做事情，做好了是你的本分，做的不好就是你失职。

19.只有错买，没有错卖。不要只顾着贪小便宜。

20.有时候孤单是正常的，不要害怕，要自己调剂

21.有真正的朋友，但不知你有没有福气遇到。不管有没有遇到，都不要否认它。不要算计别人，尤其不要算计自己喜欢的人。对自己喜欢的人，不要使用手段去得到。

22.最勇敢的事情是认清了生活的真相之后依旧热爱生活。不要害怕欺骗，但要知道世界上存在欺骗。

23.借钱的时候，心里要有个底，就是要想着这个钱是回不来的。所以借出去的钱永远要在自己能承受的损失范围之内。可以承受的数字以内，即使回不来，也是心里早准备好的。自己不能承受损失的数目，就不能借。

24.最好的朋友之间，除非他穷的吃不了饭了，否则最好不要有经济往来。许多可贵的友谊都败坏在钱上。

25.君子可寓意于物，但不可留意于物。

26.出门在外能忍则忍，退一步海阔天空。

27.擦桌子的时候要往自己的方向抹。

28.打电话接电话第一句话一定要是喂，您好；挂电话的时候等别人先挂。

29.一次不忠百次不容。

30.不随地吐痰扔东西，如果没有垃圾箱，就拎回家扔垃圾筒里。

31.多看书对心灵有益,你会看到一个更广阔的世界。

32.是你去适应社会,不是社会来适应你。

33.不要让别人知道自己的真实想法,要笑在人前笑,要哭一个人躲起来哭。

34.走路手不要插在口袋里。

35.简单的事情复杂做，复杂的事情简单做。

36.机会只留给有准备的人，天上不会掉馅饼。

37.不管什么条件下，仔细刷牙，特别是晚上。

38.早上一定要吃早餐，没有早餐喝杯水也一定要。

39.少说别人是非，把自己管牢。

40.你是无价之宝。

41.女生，和男孩子出去要自己买单。

42.要对自己的行为负责，不要怨天由人，在做之前要想想应不应该，出了事要学会自己解决。

43.要想人前显贵，必先人后受罪

成大事必備9種能力、9種手段、9種心態

2010-11-28T15:59:00.000+08:00

一：沉穩
（1）不要隨便顯露你的情緒。
（2）不要逢人就訴說你的困難和遭遇。
（3）在徵詢別人的意見之前，自己先思考，但不要先講。
（4）不要一有機會就嘮叨你的不滿。
（5）重要的決定儘量有別人商量，最好隔一天再發佈。

（6）講話不要有任何的慌張，走路也是。
二：細心
（1）對身邊發生的事情，常思考它們的因果關係。
（2）對做不到位的執行問題，要發掘它們的根本癥結。
（3）對習以為常的做事方法，要有改進或優化的建議。
（4）做什麼事情都要養成有條不紊和井然有序的習慣。

（5）經常去找幾個別人看不出來的毛病或弊端。
（6）自己要隨時隨地對有所不足的地方補位。
三：膽識
（1）不要常用缺乏自信的詞句
（2）不要常常反悔，輕易推翻已經決定的事。
（3）在眾人爭執不休時，不要沒有主見。

（4）整體氛圍低落時，你要樂觀、陽光。
（5）做任何事情都要用心，因為有人在看著你。
（6）事情不順的時候，歇口氣，重新尋找突破口，就結束也要乾淨俐落。
四：大度
（1）不要刻意把有可能是夥伴的人變成對手。
（2）對別人的小過失、小錯誤不要斤斤計較。
（3）在金錢上要大方，學習三施（財施、法施、無畏施）
（4）不要有權力的傲慢和知識的偏見。
（5）任何成果和成就都應和別人分享。
（6）必須有人犧牲或奉獻的時候，自己走在前面。
五：誠信
（1）做不到的事情不要說，說了就努力做到。
（2）虛的口號或標語不要常掛嘴上。
（3）針對客戶提出的“不誠信"問題，拿出改善的方法。
（4）停止一切“不道德"的手段。
（5）耍弄小聰明，要不得！
（6）計算一下產品或服務的誠信代價，那就是品牌成本。
六：擔當

（1）檢討任何過失的時候，先從自身或自己人開始反省。
（2）事項結束後，先審查過錯，再列述功勞。
（3）認錯從上級開始，表功從下級啟動
（4）著手一個計畫，先將權責界定清楚，而且分配得當。
（5）對“怕事"的人或組織要挑明瞭說。
（6）因為勇於承擔責任所造成的損失，公司應該承擔

成大事的九種手段：
1、敢於決斷－－克服猶豫不定的習性
很多人之所以一事無成，最大的毛病就是缺乏敢於決斷的手段，總是左顧右盼、思前想後，從而錯失成功的最佳時機。成大事者在看到事情的成功可能性到來時，敢於做出重大決斷，因此取得先機。
2、挑戰弱點－－徹底改變自己的缺陷
人人都有弱點，不能成大事者總是固守自己的弱點，一生都不會發生重大轉變；能成大事者總是善於從自己的弱點上開刀，去把自己變成一個能力超強的人。一個連自己的缺陷都不能糾正的人，只能是失敗者！
3、突破困境－－從失敗中撮成功的資本
人生總要面臨各種困境的挑戰，甚至可以說困境就是“鬼門關”。一般人會在困境面前渾身發抖，而成大事者則能把困境變為成功的有力跳板。
4、抓住機遇－－善於選擇、善於創造
機遇就是人生最大的財富。有些人浪費機遇輕而易舉，所以一個個有巨大潛力的機遇都悄然溜跑，成大事都是絕對不允許溜走，並且能縱身撲向機遇。
5、發揮強項－－做自己最擅長的事情
一個能力極弱的人肯定難以打開人生局面，他必定是人生舞臺上重量級選手的犧牲品；成大事者關於在自己要做的事情上，充分施展才智，一步一步地拓寬成功之路。
6、調整心態－－切忌讓情緒傷害自己

心態消極的人，無論如何都挑不起生活和重擔，因為他們無法直面一個個人生挫折，成大事者則關於高速心態，即使在毫無希望時，也能看到一線成功的亮光。
7、立即行動－－只說不做，徒勞無益
一次行動勝過百遍心想。有些人是“語言的巨人，行動的矮子”，所以看不到更為實際現實的事情在他身上發生；成大事者是每天都靠行動來落實自己的人生計畫的。
8、善於交往－－巧妙利用人力資源
一個人不懂得交往，必然會推動人際關係的力量。成大事者的特點之一是：善於靠借力、借熱去營造成功的局勢，從而能把一件件難以辦成的事辦成，實現自己人生的規劃。
9、重新規劃－－站到更高的起點上

比尔·盖茨退休前写给青年人的十条忠告~~~

2010-11-21T15:54:00.000+08:00

1.社会充满着不公平的现象。但你先不要想去改造它，只能先适应它。

（因为你管不了它。）

2.世界不会在意你的自尊，人们看的只是你的成就。在你没有成就以前，切勿过分强调自尊。

(因为你越强调自尊，越对你不利。)

3.你只是中学毕业，通常不会成为CEO，直到你把CEO职位拿到手为止。

（直到此时，人们才不会介意你只是中学毕业）

4.当你陷入人为困境时，不要抱怨，你只能默默地吸取教训。

（你要悄悄地振作起来，重新奋起。）

5.你要懂得：在没有你之前，你的父母并不像现在这样“乏味”。你应该想到，这是他们为了抚养你所付出的巨大代价。

（你永远要感恩和孝敬他们，才是硬道理。）

6.在学校里，你考第几已不是那么重要，但进入社会却不然。不管你去哪里，都要分等排名。

（社会、公司要排名次是常见的事，要鼓起勇气竞争才对。）

7.学校里有节假日，到公司打工则不然，你几乎不能休息，很少能轻松地过节假日。

（否则你职业生涯中一起跑就落后了，甚至会让你永远落后。）

8.在学校，老师会帮助你学习，到公司却不会。如果你认为学校的老师要求你很严格，那是你还没有进入公司打工。因为，如果公司对你不严厉，你就要失业了。

（你必须清醒地认识到：公司比学校更要严格要求自己。）

9.人们都喜欢看电视剧，但你不要看，那并不是你的生活。只要在公司工作，你是无暇看电视剧的。　　　　（奉劝你不要看，否则你走上看电视连续剧之路，而且看得津津有味，那你将失去成功的资格。）

10.永远不要在背后批评别人，尤其不能批评你的老板无知、刻薄和无能。

（因为这样的心态，会使你走上坎坷艰难的成长之路。）

我要去台湾-16

2010-10-26T19:41:00.002+08:00

田季發爺

愛玉之夢遊仙草

龍山寺旁的夜市-寶字號豬腳

阿財虱目魚肚

馬祖麵店

鑫（三個魚字）生猛海鮮

士林廖記七里香（認商標-吹風機）

我要去台湾-15

2010-10-25T20:24:00.002+08:00

基隆

孝三路簡家蚵仔煎，排骨酥湯

仁三路遠東泡泡冰花生花豆泡泡冰

忠三路遠東水煎包

雙胞胎

安一路郭家巷頭粿仔

野柳海洋世界

太平洋海灣溫泉度假飯店

我要去台湾-14

2010-10-24T18:34:00.002+08:00

高雄瑞豐夜市

古早味紅茶-鴛鴦奶茶

嘉記法式可麗餅

鮮奶麻薯

高月傳說-月亮蝦餅

彰化

豆花堂糯米炸

彰化關帝廟前小吃-露天居酒屋（1，3，5，6）

公園芋頭冰

騎樓藥膳上品美食

桃園夜市

【魚土】【魚乇】魚羹

綜合口味烤馬鈴薯

楓糖起司圈

嘉義順三色蚵仔煎，花枝羹

天下奇冰

板橋南雅夜市

眼睛仔豬血湯

脆皮熱狗

板橋宋家

騎士卷-起司卷

人生

2010-09-17T20:48:00.002+08:00

男子要知道怎样写“责任”

女子要知道怎样写“眼光”

三十岁之前要弄清楚三件事

1.要和谁结婚

2.要做什么事

3.要怎么死

我要去台湾-13

2010-09-05T17:09:00.002+08:00

高雄

苓雅區巷弄-林泉街-歐吉斯燒仙草，紅心粉圓，仙草珍珠撞奶。

三多商圈八五大樓旁邊-喬品賣炒飯-牛肉炒飯。豬肝泡麵

文衡路三多三路口-鴨霸王國-黃金蛋

中正路民族路口附近門牌33hotel

菜市場內-鼓山陳師傅中藥養生烤雞

大順牛扎糖

我要去台湾-12

2010-09-05T11:01:00.002+08:00

萬華（艋甲）

貴陽街清水祖師爺廟

沙茶牛肉大王

剝皮寮街-一心鵝肉面

新富市場-金禾壽司，阿婆油飯，丸合海產

龍來果汁

華西街-北港甜湯

古山園旅社

我要去台湾-11

2010-09-05T10:09:00.002+08:00

楊梅

自立新農交叉口希臘餐廳-米克諾斯香料廚房

幼獅工業區，青年路-郭元益糕餅博物館

大成路味-全冰淇淋蛋糕/金星冰淇淋

君洋城堡/法國天空

四維路【食壹】廚麵點王

我要去菲律宾

2010-09-04T19:00:00.003+08:00

长滩岛(Manila>Kalibo>Catician>長灘島Boracay Island)

Patio Pacific Boracay(Hotel)

釣魚浮淺吃午餐

按摩喝mango shake

aria(D Mall出來左邊第一間沙灘吃pizza)

Bite Club Grill Burger(D Mall裡面面對摩天輪，右手邊)

西班牙餐厅

我要去台湾-10

2010-08-29T18:41:00.003+08:00

花蓮（防蚊液）

廟口紅茶

燕銘紅輪

阿姨龍鳳腿

弘宇蛋糕-水晶芋泥奶酪

理想大地度假村

兆豐農場

瑞穗鮮奶

芳草古樹-干編肥腸

我要去台湾-09

2010-08-25T22:07:00.003+08:00

石門水庫

泰雅食堂

蜜地瓜

龍潭旁邊（龍潭大池西南方）星期一休息-胡椒餅

龍潭鄉佳安村田中央姜母鴨

華南路-roti包

我要去台湾-08

2010-08-24T20:22:00.003+08:00

高雄

苓雅區

徐州啥鍋-啥鍋，三鮮蒸餃

林森二路巷弄-小事情咖啡館（瓊瑤舊居）

福記臭豆腐

自強夜市-鱔魚意面，滷肉飯

杰克乳酪蛋糕

我要去台湾-07

2010-08-24T19:26:00.002+08:00

嘉义

圓環路邊攤碳燒杏仁茶

菜市場王家祖傳本產牛雜湯（鍋底“gia deh”）

華南碗粿

呆獅雞肉飯

彎彎曲曲巷子里，門口停benz，無名羊肉攤

嘉義大學-鮮乳，優格（有的看沒得吃）

正老牌草魚湯，粥

我要去臺湾-06

2010-08-23T21:43:00.002+08:00

新竹

阿婆早餐店-双黄油条，红油炒手

戽斗魯肉飯-粉“沯”

十八尖山

富源花生酱

黑隆美食-虾仁炒饭，肉粽

護城河

延平大飯店

我要去台湾-05

2010-08-23T20:38:00.002+08:00

三重埔

溪尾街和三和路口附近美美博士碳烤三明治

溪尾街阿媽古早味11am-米粉湯，魯肉飯，黑白切

集美街傳統集美三色布丁

三重/三和夜市-吉市牛排，蔡家現打果汁

薇風馥麗飯店

彌敦道酒號-九號脆皮雞，避風塘百花油條，港式煲湯

我要去夏威夷

2010-08-23T19:43:00.003+08:00

歐胡島

摩托車 944-0066

瞭望臺

halona噴水口

island snow hawaii-奧巴馬冰淇淋

kua aina 巨型漢堡

平價飯店（waikiki海灘附近）Hyatt Regency Waikiki Beach Resort and Spa Ohana East飯店,Ohana Waikiki飯店

huli huli chicken（狐貍雞）

庫亞洛亞牧場（KUALOA）

jurassic park

我要去台湾-04

2010-08-23T18:39:00.002+08:00

新北市都新

板橋美食

板橋后站重庆路巷子(后山诚品后面)-祖傳魷魚羹

忠孝路11號麵館椒麻鸡丝面，肉羹汤

三豐芋冰城-芋泥牛奶冰，綜合冰磚

長興百年餅店-魯肉酥，白豆沙

南雅夜市排隊奶瓶爆米花

萬板路臨洋港熱炒-南乳雞翅，金沙蛋豆腐，蒜泥孔雀蛤

帝王林家姜母鴨

縣民大道下面露天酒吧-布那飛比利時啤酒餐廳-布那飛pizza，雞肉卷

我要去台湾-03

2010-08-23T17:28:00.002+08:00

台北

華山市場附近，阜杭豆漿-厚燒餅,豆漿-5.30am

烤師傅烤肉飯，和風雞腿飯

內湖區苗圃草莓園

永和神出鬼沒阿伯肉圓（9am之前永和鐵工廠）

鶯歌順【言益】蛋糕不開門的天使蛋糕（9-10點取貨）

陶博館柴燒麵包窯-星期6開，154個/天

三重姜母鴨（永慶不動產附近）

我要去台湾-02

2010-08-23T16:38:00.002+08:00

建國南北路

建國北路-維也納麵包，雞蛋烤布蕾

瑞安街小巷-美式早午餐-egg benedict

建國南路長安東路交叉巷-3Q紅茶

96號B1袖珍博物館

四川菜

我要去韩国

2010-08-23T13:24:00.002+08:00

首尔

南山古韩屋村

宫廷料理

土俗村參鸡汤（七月八月）

仁寺洞小吃-油餅

蠶室站娛樂城-樂天遊樂園

漢江遊覽船

弘益大學畢卡索街

咖啡王子一號點

包裝馬車

夜遊清溪川

我要去台湾-01

2010-08-22T20:19:00.003+08:00

北苗栗

頭份義民廟

松茂米粉

天桥旁边-頭份鸭肉面

頭份黃昏市場-羅家煎包

竹科新貴推薦-許記越式羊肉爐(九月-四月)

無名面攤-什錦面（阿清雜菜面）

四方牧場

竹南香香意面-干意面，嘴邊肉，肝連，餛飩湯，昆布

竹南啤酒廠

看屋十大要件

2010-06-27T21:34:00.001+08:00

天地墙柱窗风火水电光

my eyes on world cup

2010-06-21T21:36:00.002+08:00

Portugal win with 7 - 0 !!!
wat is ur oppinion on it?
ok.... lets listen to my non-professional talk... haha...
ok... i think that it is a must for portugal to have as much as possible goals... why? becuase in their group got Côte d’Ivoire, North Korea, Brazil. their next opponent is brazil, i think i dont need to explain u oso know how good is brazil, but i dont mean portugal is noob, this is a very tough game, n oso very interesting game, the mamak stall sure full house.. haha...
ok... then the Côte d’Ivoire oso not bad... elephant of africa, dont play play man.... the team draw with portugal n lose to brazil, so his final match in this group is vs north korean, of course, they need to win at least 8 - 0, if brazil oso win 3 -1 to portugal.
now u know why portugal wanna have so many goals? in case they lose to brazil and Côte d’Ivoire win north korea, they still higher chance join the 2nd round of world cup because they have more goals compare to Côte d’Ivoire... else? say good bye to africa...
i like both portugal n Côte d’Ivoire... but the team i support most is england... but england draw 2 matches ad... lol... must win ah.... else? wait for another 4 years... haha...

Surprise....

2010-06-05T18:52:00.002+08:00

surprise..... haha.... i visited my friend's blog just now.... i was surprised.... because my photo is in his blog with the title "show me your money".... haha... i thought i owe him money.... lol.... it has been very long time i didnt visit his blog... his blog improves become better n better... really like it... come n have a look...
http://soulwithinus.blogspot.com/
i had stopped sharing my collections in my blog for quite a long time... after i click on my photo in his blog with the title "show me your money", i just realize that is a link to my blog, i was thinking that was my first reason why i created my blog... he remind me not to give up on the thing u like... dont give up... i think i need to continue sharing my collections... but i am quite lazy doing it... haha... anyway... i will try my best...

back to miri

2010-05-24T11:22:00.003+08:00

i am now back to miri.... haiz.... tired.... i wanna rest... there are a lot of thing i need to settle... but i cant do anything thing.... i need some motive to push me to start a new life... but i cant... i am still in the past... you are my motive... haiz... i still cannot look through the red dust... please wake up... is it like the taiwan drama? is it i need to pass some tough time then only i will get happy ending? haha... i don't think so... that's why i don't like to watch taiwan drama.... but now that is my only hope... if it really does, i am willing to face the tough time... but i want to make sure that is the ending that i want... but there is no guarantee that i can get what i want after the tough time... stop day dreaming please... haha... wat a funny and pity ah ming... sakai betul.... bye bye...

conclusion of 3 years uni life. never regret to know you guys.

2010-04-19T11:53:00.004+08:00

finally, i settle all my things.... phew~ finally... everything done... now is time to chiong for my life... am i ready? not yet... really tired... i just know that i am not a talented student... but luckily i can finish my uni life... hope can grad smoothly... i learn a lot of thing in this 3 year... really a new mile stone for me... at here i met a lot of friends.... really want to thank you....

housemates:
keesiang - thanks... you r really a geng person.... i donno did i do anything make u beh song or not... u r really a geng person... u r my role model, a lot of thing i need to learn from u... thanks for endure my bad attitude as a housemate... want come my house, tell me... anytime welcome... hope i can arrange time to serve u... haha...

phitsiang - wee, you r the person i respect the most... u know a lot of thing that i dont know... thank you for willing to share ur experience n ur knowledge to me.... i oso have a lot of thing need to learn from u... thanks you oso for serving me as a guest when i go to ur house... thanks... i appreciate....

koksiong - james, although sometime i didnt agree with what u say, but sometimes u r right, but there is quite difficult for a person to judge whether is it correct or not... thanks... i appreciate your 义气... and u dont like to kira with me.... thanks...

saw - thanks saw... thanks for bring me go travel in penang, beside, as a housemate and friend, u really good to me, i appreciate... u oso have a lot of "principle of living" i agree with u, but i almost forget... i have bad memory... but i remember the latest 1, everything happen/exist, there must be a reason... very true... thanks...

ray - ray, u oso very geng... adaptable to the environment, i respect the way you handle stress... u really can work under pressure, i think i am oledi dead for thousand years if i was you... thanks for being our tour guide when i go to melacca... ur family oso very kind... thanks...

benny - thanks for endure my bad attitude, i always pass the job to u, like the motorcycle, mostly the problem r handle by u... thanks for helping in me many thing n u dont kira with me...

kent - kent, you r a really geng person, say truely, i cant understand what you think, how u can tahan for so long time... i will take u as my friend, although we r not so close if compare to others... u oso never kira with me... keep in touch...

fatt - fatt.... machai of pang, haha... ini oso tak kira dengan aku... hebat... u oso can tahan for so long time... that's why u n ah kent can be first 2 machai of pang... respect... thanks ah... ur ice kacang and 猪肉粉 r delicious... u cant join our trip in may, but if u want come anytime, u r welcome, let me know 1st....

friends & coursemates:
wailing & liangfang - u 2 ah.... really respect u... i think u 2 r my救星... really help me a lot in these 3 years... really appreciate u 2.... i donno u treat everyone so good or me only... i can feel that u treat me very very good.... oso no kira with me... ur family oso very kind.... haha... happy to stay at wangsa maju n pagoh.... nice place... want come miri? sure can... tell me earlier... hope i will be in miri...

fei - long time didnt c u ad.... still friends? of course yes.... keep in touch...

liyon - liyon... when u say u r kuching heng hua lang... feel so 亲切... haha... happy to know u... happy o... next time go kuching can go find u liao... welcome me or not? haha....

szecia - happy to know u... 你让我成长不少... thanks...

wheysin - lion from seremban.... funny to have u as friend.... u r not like xiuwen o...u r not 单纯o... u really geng 1... haha... never worry about u... i think u pro than me in many way... +U

xiuwen - hey.... pekan cute girl... sometime i feel u very 单纯n funny... must take care urself... u r the eldest in family, must be a good role model for ur younger sisters...

shingmay - hey leng lui.... am i the first guy u know in umt? haha... i just know is jinglong introduce u to me... happy to have u as friend, remember we went to chong k? funny la... 3 sohai go chong k... haha...

sitleong & leon - thanks the tay's brothers... thanks for serve me as a guest when i went to kuantan, a nice place, kind parents.... thanks a lot....

yinphang & siewsheng - haha... happy to know u guys... so happy to c u 2 so enthusiastic in playing basketball... sorry for always reject to join u guys... i really feel that i am not talented in it... hope u can forgive me...

jinglong - abang long... lama tak jumpa... keep in touch... we know each other in cari right... haha... funny.... we r the sohai cari gang... haha...

jessica - jessica.... a melaka lembu... haha... thanks for being our driver when we go to melacca... thanks ah.... a kind person... keep in touch...

lun - ah lun.... orang yang tak kira... thanks... wish to go kelantan again... thanks for bring me to travel in kelantan...

choontak - tak.... thanks.... appreciate.... u bring me to kai kai in alor star... really visit a lot of places... sorry for bringing u a lot of problems... ur mom oso very kind.... must treat her good good ok? hope can go visit her again.... or u can bring ur mom to visit my hometown... haha...

ven how - the sabahan... uncle ven... haha... kind person to me... keep in touch... never been to sabah... must be my tour guild when i go there.... haha...

conting - haha... r we friends? haha... feel weird... i think we seldom talk in real life... i think there is a better word can describe our relationship.... “网友”... haha... coz i think we only chat on internet... haha... u r good girl... must take care....

ah kam - kam yeh..... yeng lo u.... 相见恨晚... haha... i dont have ur msn, dont have ur number... how do we contact leh? haha....

snow yen - ah moi... ah moi.... memang a good girl... actually i forget how we meet ad... lucky got u... if not i sure cant go seatru... funny la... happy to go seatru with u... not much junior i know... u r the 1 i close only...

lingshia - haha... u r neither my batch nor junior... u r my senior... haha... thanks la... giving me a lot of books.... really long time no contact u ad... keep in touch... dont worry.... i sure will contact u when i remember u... haha...

janet - halo janet... a good n kind person... erm.... a good leader... nice to meet u here... really less contact started on 5th sem... no more same lecture in class ad.... keep in touch....

there still also a lot of friends i didnt mention, doesnt mean u r not important in my life.... u guys ever exist in my life... u r 1 of my friends.... appreciate...

by何戎in大学生了没

2010-04-19T11:32:00.001+08:00

欣赏对方的长处，包容对方的短处，纪念对方的好处，担当对方的难处

early birthday....

2010-04-16T01:55:00.003+08:00

today might be the last gathering that we have in terengganu... how was it? good? nice? bad? i dont know... haiz... why... my heart was pull away by my fyp... because i need to do correction... it is quite tough for me... if i dont do it well, i might fail and need to extend 1 more year... really scare... hope everything go smooth... god bless... friends just celebrate ours birthday.... lala, me n liyon... wat a early birthday celebration... haha... funny... becoz they donno how to act... lala just watching their malao movie... haha... i never know they will help me celebrate... erm... thanks... appreciate.... byebye... donno when can we meet again.... really hope to c u again...

sot kia

2010-04-12T18:27:00.002+08:00

haha... i am the first presenter today... haha... so charm.... cant answer the questions.... haiz... no more A liao lo.... haha.... 14/4 is my lat paper.... but i didnt study.... i study some other things that i interested.... what is it? haha.... everyone know that... haha... my collections.... i saw a lot of "old man", "handsome guy", "queen" and so on.... all i want la... haha.... but expensive o... haha... 1 weird thing i saw is the "buffalo", normally the buffalo is $10, but just now i saw one is $1, why leh? never c b4... even my reference book oso dont have... how come ah... nvm... i ad ask in forum.... maybe can get the answer is these few day... tomolo study.... then the next day exam, then free liao... yeah...

[转自cari]建议

2010-04-11T13:22:00.000+08:00

1. 七版AHMAD MOHD DON的百元钞 B43C (PRINTER HARRISON & SON)，发行的PREFIX才AN到AP两个PREFIX而已(没有AO).算起来比盲点百元还少，但是市价才两百元左右，实在太便宜了。我认为未来的合理价，应该在300以上.

2. 6版的RM10, JAAFAR HUSSEIN B34C (PRINTER BA BANKNOTES), 只是VM, VN, VP, VQ, VR五个PREFIX而已, 如果价钱不贵可以收藏.

3. 六版的五元CROSS FLAG POST B33A, B33C(不过这个现在已卖得相当贵了,如果价钱合理还可以买)

4. 六版的五十元JAAFAR HUSSEIN B36C, 才PREFIX XS-XZ而已, 如果全新80-120之间可以购买.

5. RM2的任何系列都不多, 自己掂量价格合理就可以买了.

6. 二三四版票, 例如五元票, 价钱大约只是五年前的1.5-2倍价值, 还未升到顶位. 5, 10 元如果有原庄CHOICE UNC的可以收.

原来。。。。

2010-04-10T03:10:00.002+08:00

好久没有写blog了。。。现在是期末考。。。离上一张考试已经过了5天，下一个功课就是FYP presentation,也就是12号，还没准备好呢。。。最后一张考试是在14号。。。之后。。。我就毕业啦。。。是好事还是坏事呢？不知道。。。很多人考完就回了。。。我呢。。。会呆到到20+号。。。想想。。。原来我是神经病。。。做麽呆那么久。。。刚才12点多一个人跑去海边。。。真的不怕鬼。。。哈哈。。。不知怎么了。。。就突然想去。。。在海边呆到整3点。。。真的是发神经了。。。好累啊。。。原来我还没放下呢。。。哈哈。。。真差劲。。。烂透了。。。去死吧你。。。哈哈。。。怎么这几天好难过哦。。。觉得时间好长哦。。。在过着废材过的生活。。。是不是人生遇到瓶颈了。。。不可能吧。。。我都还没出社会就遇到瓶颈。。。真糟糕。。。
之前看过这句话。。。
《这世界上最累的事，莫过于眼睁睁看着自己的心碎了，还得自己动手把它粘回原型》
我粘不回去咧。。。怎么办。。。回去找老妈帮忙。。。哈哈。。。可是。。。离回家的日子还有好久哦。。。啊！！！我要死了。。。。怎么思乡病越来越严重。。。还是思母病呢。。。这3年来。。。最想家应该是这个sem了。。。怎么会这样啊。。。人家都是初来报道时思乡病严重，之后会慢慢适应的。。。我呢刚好相反。。。刚来是开心的咧。。。现在。。。想家想到发神经。。。
之前都不喜欢熬夜。。。现在发现熬夜原来感觉还不错。。。可是对身体不好。。。那熬好还是不熬好呢？难啊。。。人生可以不要做那么多选择吗?很累的咧。。。

End of Uni life

2010-04-06T16:13:00.003+08:00

i just finished a paper yesterday.... and i still left 1 paper n 1 presentation.... im not preparing them yet... what did i do? apply for job... haha.... just give a try.... haha... who knows i can get it... haha... tonight got bbq... hope it is interesting n fun....

名言

2010-03-16T23:00:00.003+08:00

最近常常看到一些名言，
让我印象最深刻是这两个：
《这世界上最累的事，莫过于眼睁睁看着自己的心碎了，还得自己动手把它粘回原型》
《人生最痛苦的事就是你活着但是你不懂你在干什么》
这两个很像我都有体会过。。。尤其是第一个，好多年前的事情了，好痛哦。。。真的不想再试那种滋味了。。。哈哈。。。
至于第二个，是最近的事情，真的好惨哦。。。你活着但是你不懂你要做什么，真的好像死人一样，干脆死掉算了。。。哈哈。。。
有时候看到很多人都有座右铭，为什么我没有？后来想了想，人家有的我不一定也要有。如果每个人有的东西我也要有那我不是很忙？哈哈。。。。
看到喜欢的东西就想办法留下它，没有办法留下的就让它去吧。。。讲很容易，做就不容易咯。。。哈哈。。。

Cameron Highland

2010-03-06T20:15:00.003+08:00

I went Cameron Highland for 2 days. It was nice, just relax there. But it was a bit rush for me. Cameron is nice, love it. it is cool, no hot days. Enjoy whole day, cool weather with steamboat. Syok. Friends gather under one roof to have games. Nice. Maybe this is the last time, because I am going to grad soon. I gonna miss here soon, but I gonna leave, because there are people waiting me at home, I love them, 3 years already. It was so fast. What did I do? I did nothing. Just playing around. After grad, I have the responsibility to take care the family, because that is my family. You should be happy if you can read this blog, because there are many people has no chance to see this. Life is weak. You can say you are strong because you can survive till now. If me, I would I am lucky, because I have my mom's love, fully filled every inches of me. Thanks mom. I love you.

A successful man

2010-01-30T14:34:00.003+08:00

what is the requires of a successful man?
i heard 1 before.... there is always a successful woman behind a successful man....
what does it mean? ok... based on my understanding... can be his mother or his life time partner... why? erm... that successful woman success is what way? she success in helping that successful man in look after his family and serve him well... so that the man can concentrate in his business... so that women really sacrifices a lot.... must show respect to her.... *salute

ok.... i personally agree with the "theory" above... a successful man needs a success woman to watch his back.... but i think it is not easy to look for 1.... haha.... it depends on our lucks.... haha...

ok... i am now a 24 years old big boy.... why big boy? you should become a man.... i call myself a big boy because sometimes i am so childish and playful... haha... but i like it... because it is me... right?

ok... after a 24 years life spending... i found myself a way to become success and i had set it as my rule... maybe you dont agree with me, but i insist it is correct for me.... wakakaka... ok... what is it.... i think that.... a successful man should have at least 2 hobbies.... a hobby which is collecting something... no matter what.... coca cola tin? robot model? gun model? as long as u like it... and it will become your hobby for ever.... and another hobby is in sport.... you can any type of sport... foot ball, basketball, snorkeling diving.... as long as you like it...

ok.... i have found my hobbies.... 1st 1 is collecting banknote... i am doing it.... always collecting banknote.... but it need a lot of money.... haha.... how about in sport? i used to play basket ball, and now i still like but not so often.... because may injure easily.... now i prefer badminton... but still, it is not my field.... now i feel there 2 interesting sports, they are playing pool and scuba diving... maybe some people dont know what is pool, pool is something like snooker, the table is smaller than snooker, in chinese we call it american snooker, i dont play snooker, because i donno how to play, and i think pool is more suitable for me.... another 1 is scuba diving, i think it is interesting because we can dive in to water and discover the world under water, but i think it is a bit risky, because i dont know how to swim... haha...

so.... men, if you agree with me... found out your 2 hobbies.... of course, it wont hurt you if you have more... haha... enjoy your life....

The 5 Financial IQs

2010-01-26T17:41:00.003+08:00

Financial IQ #1:Making more money.
Financial IQ #2:Protecting your money.
Financial IQ #3:Budgeting your money.
Financial IQ #4:Leveraging your money.
Financial IQ #5:Improving your financial information.

From
Increase Your Financial IQ
Written by
Robert T. Kiyosaki

Pro Sam Tsui ! Bravo !

2010-01-17T14:46:00.003+08:00

I found this video clip in youtube.... this man is very pro....i like his voice and his singing skill... for me, he is perfect... bravo!!!!

I am insane

2010-01-14T15:21:00.004+08:00

I am insane.... please help me... please cure me.... please!!! dealing in internet is a very dangerous thing... i knew it.... but why do i like to do it even though i knew it... oh man... i am scared..... this time is an big amount for me.... i am scared... really scared... haha.... he tell me that things will reach tomolo... but i expect on saturday... coz nobody works tomolo... just like sunday in other states.... i think i cant sleep properly tonight... even for the next few day.... god bless...

Good day.....

2010-01-13T16:15:00.003+08:00

helo... today is gonna be a good day~ today is gonna be a good good day~ haha... today... 2 big things happened... both r good things.... and i want to thank these 2 ppl... haha...

1st... i was ask data from the fishery department for about 1 month.... but until now... i get nothing.... so i try my second hope.... ask from another party.... at 1st i call h(h=him/her, i dont want to mention is him or her)... h is good, h is willing to give me data... but h shoot me with 2 bullet.... although it is hurt, but is a good lesson for me... thank you.

2nd... my all housemate is having class... including me..... so i ask my neighbour lian fang to help me to collect my parcel, coz the seller told me that it will reach this morning.... then, the post man came when my housemate was back.... so my housemate help me collect the parcel... but lian fang donno that.... what she saw is the postman is leaving... she thought nobody is home.. so she went to chase the post man.... wou... funny... haha... but really thanks.... because she chase the postman for me... haha....

today is a good day.... haha... thanks.... coz i had a good lesson n a good n funny friend... haha....

Announcement

2010-01-11T21:21:00.004+08:00

to all my friends... today i want to inform you all that, start from now, i am not going to show my collections on my blog.... why? erm... i have no reason.... if there are new launch banknote or coins, maybe i will inform u guys through my blog if i know... or if u r interested in my collection.... maybei will let you have a look... hehe...

邓普顿金言Templeton

2010-01-09T16:57:00.002+08:00

长期投资者只有一个目标：争取最高的扣税后实质总回酬。
要取得辉煌的记录，需要做大量的研究及功课，比大多数人想像的困难得多。
除非你所作所为，有异于大部分人，否则，你不可能有杰出的表现。
众人最悲观时，既是最佳买股时，最乐观时即最佳卖股时。
第4则金言的另一种说法是：在股市中，当大部分投资者抛售时，是廉价迈进股票的最佳时机。
当他人绝望地抛售，你却进场吸购，当他人贪得无厌时，你却进行抛售，这样做需要坚韧不拔的意志力，但可以取得最大的收获。
熊市通常是短暂的，在商业周期触底钱1至12个月开始回升。
当某个行业或股票受投资者热捧时，通常不会持久，跌下来之后，多年都不会回弹。
长期来说，股价随着每股净利的长期上升趋势波动。
在企业享有自由的国家，股市指数之盈利随着指数股的账面替换价值波动。
如果你买他人所买的同样股票，你就只能取得他人同样的利润。
当短期持股人卖完时，就是买进该股的时候了。当短期持股人买完时，就是脱售该股的时候了。
股票的价格比价值波动更大，因此，指数基金永远取不到最佳的表现。
太多投资者专注“前景”及“趋势”，使专注“价值”的投资者获利更丰。
如果你到全球起找，你会找到比专注一国更值得买进的股票，由于多元化，也就更安全。
股价的波动幅度，约跟价格的平方根成正比例。
你买度奥手头的资产，是因为你找到更值得投资的对象来代替它。
任何选股法受欢迎时，即改采不受欢迎的选股法，正如第3则金言所说，当太多投资者采用该种选股法或股市预测法时，该法即失效。
对任何形式的资产或选择法，切勿墨守成规，要有伸缩性，思想开明及持怀疑态度，唯有摒弃热门股或热门选股法，改买冷门股及冷门选股法，才有可能长期取得顶尖成绩。
在投资中，普通股的选择，需要最高明的选择技巧。
最卓越的表现，出自个人，并非出自一个委员会。
如果以祈祷起始，头脑会更清醒，少犯愚蠢的错误。

my starting of 2010

2010-01-01T12:20:00.003+08:00

i cant imagine that this is my starting of 2010.... how is it? funny... haha.... we went e-bistro at around 1am... u know wat.... i just wear a cheap t-shirt n short pants.... then everyone there wear like go drink... haha... special mah me... my style... hehe... when we reach there... damn many ppl... but still get in there... n my friends start to drink.... but i dont.... maybe because i feel should have some ppl keep their mind clear to look after those drunk... haha... i just know that most of my friends are wolves with sheep skin... walao... especially xxx... wou... pro man.... at 1st he say he dont want to drink... but suddenly he go order wor... not normal beer leh... "black dog" leh... maijio... then he start to dance..... walao... donno how to say... just see him shake his body from the starting till the end... geng... is this counted as clubbing? if yes then this might be my 1st time clubbing... haha... actually the feel not bad... but why i didnt enjoy the environment.... maybe i am not ready gua... haha... maybe i will like to clubbing next time... ok... back to xxx... at first he say he dont want to drink... but why suddenly drink leh? the answer he gave me is.... the sound effect too good... cant control himself... haha... beh tahan when i heard this answer.... after that, we go McD to have some drinks.... because somebody is drunk... and now show my function for that night... of course i drive home.... haha.... coz my boss is drunk.... haha....

Last Station - Pagoh/Muar

2009-12-30T22:01:00.002+08:00

27/11/2009, we reach pagoh at night.... very malu leh... coz go girl's house... haha... but nvm la... her family very kind la.... so kind... kind till.... aiyo.... donno how to say la... just kind x 100.... haha.... we did nothing i think.... after reach we just settle and sleep.... coz very tired ad... haha...

28/11/2009, the next day..... woo... we go to the hometown of namewee.... who is namewee?? haha... the most familiar rap singer in malaysia.... haha... funny.... we go ther not because of of him... is because of otah otah... yummy.... love otah otah so much.... morning.... we go to eat bah kut teh in muar..... beh pai oh.... because the rice is not plain rice.... is ooh pui(yam rice).... of course not only the rice delicious.... the pork n soup oso delicious.... haha... after that.... we go to eat the mee kering with soup dumpling very famous in muar... the soup dumpling very yummy.... lian fang say they start work at noon, then finish in the evening.... can u imagine how good is their business? i think got 10 workers o.... just in 1 small stall.... so geng la.... haha... after that we go shopping..... nothing special there because just small town.... after shopping we go to a famous bakery.... at there u can test everything... no need money 1.... but with 1 condition.... ur face very very thick baru can la.... i got try la... quite a lot i try.... but at last i malu so i buy something.... haha... after that.... we go back home lu.... dinner is at a place near lian fang house... woo... eat too much... very full.... haha.... not bad oso the food...got chicken la... got prawn la... got egg la... got vege la... very feng fu... haha... at night.... we just watch tv till midnight then sleep.... very simple life ah.... good good... suitable for me... hehe....

29/11/2009 we eat liao breakfast then back to KL liao.... wat we eat? homemade yam rice... sedapnya.... haha.... after that we start our journey back to KL.... haha.... finished my holidays trip liao.... haha.... we take the night bus back to KT...... so we stay in KL just a few hours.... but at least i tried kenny rogers.... haha...

finally i get all the pictures from my friends.... erm.... not every place i got take picture.... just penang kelantan melaka n muar.... but ok ad la... haha.... show u the photos next time...

5th Station - Melaka

2009-12-23T23:48:00.003+08:00

ok... actually i went to KL before i go to melaka... to meet my friends(benny, wailing lianfang).... because we do nothing in KL, so i didnt write anything about KL... ok let's move to my melaka trip.... on 25th of Nov, we drive from KL to melaka... it takes about 2 hours +, we reach melaka about 10 something... n we go drive around melaka and wait for our melaka friends(jessica, ray, siang)..... melaka really small.... although u wont get lost... but u oso cant get to the place u want if really donno the way... haha.... at last... we stop at dataran pahlawan... n go walk walk... haha... at that time, i think most of the shop havent open yet.... so we just walk walk.... mana tahu... accidentally we reach the old castle---afamosa... it is just behind the dataran pahlawan.... so small la melaka... so near every place... haha... beccause the shop havent open, so we go to afamosa to walk walk... n take some photos.... u know wat... melaka really small.... i walk along the road.... just turn a corner... the red house is just behind the afamosa... haha.... the red house is an old church.... actually i dont know more about it... i just go walk walk... didnt go inside... there got many museum.... museum of UMNO la... museum of stamp la... many lagi la... but i didnt get in... coz i am not interested and it need to buy ticket to enter the museum.... if there is a museum i sure go in with out thinking... haha... funny... wakakaka... at noon time... my friends have reach.... they bring us to eat the famous... chicken rice ball... haha... not bad not bad... like it... actually it is normal i think... just the rice is in round shape... n the taste is the same as chicken rice... haha... but it is worth to have a try.... after having chicken rice ball as lunch... we go to jonker walk to walk walk.... it is damn hot... coz it is noon time... got shop open but we should come on fri, sat , sun... because having pasar malam.... haha.... at jonker got some famous place... 1st... is the dodol.... dodol is a very famous snack in melaka... but u must choose the right brand.... wat brand? i donno.. haha... but can buy at jonker walk, 2nd thing is the pineapple biscuit.... my mom's favourite... i didnt buy because i cant bring back to miri for my mom... haha... nvm... next time i buy for her... 3rd thing is the special designed t shirt... this make me think about yunhao... yunhao oso a great designer... yunhao, if got chance go melaka, u must go jonker walk to see that shop... hehe.... last thing is the cendol nyonya... wat so special? i donno actually... just not bad the taste... really different from miri... oso different from penang... for me, i like the the penang most.... very nice to eat.... but melaka got 1 special.... got durian taste 1... funny o... u imagine cold cold de ice kacang got the smell of durian... haha ...after that.... we go back to ray's auntie house to rest.... travel really tired... haha.... around 4pm+ we go to eat hai nan satay... got pork, chicken, got usus 1 la... donno call wat... internal meat? haha... poor english... haha.... but we eat chicken n pork only... because usus habis oledi... haha... after that we go to the eye of melaka... rm10.. quite expensive... haha... nvm... at least i tried... wakaka... erm... after that of course is dinner time... we go to eat nyonya food... i believe many people watched the singapore drama - little nyonya right? haha.... but u ever eat nyonya food? i ever eat leh... haha... wat did we eat? forget liao... i just remember 1... "pong teh" something like chicken cook with kicap... haha... not bad... feel fresh... coz never eat before... then... we show the way back to muar to my friend... because they want go home... after that.... we go eat dimsum at nigth... funny... 1st time eat dimsum at night... i like the herbal chicken... because i like herbal... haha.... yumyum... we eat eat n talk talk... haha.... after go back rest lo... too tired....

2nd day... 26/11/2009 we eat dimsum as breakfast... nyamai betul.... like it so much... especially ju cheong fan... yum yum... we went to zoo melaka... the entrance fee only rm 7... c many animal la... the most i like of course tiger... beside is the hornbill n tortoise of course... haha... then go to another nyonya shop to eat the nyonya food... got cendol nyonya, laksa nyonya and rojak nyonya... haha... althought all not bad... but i still prefer sarawak laksa and rojak... coz got the smell of hometown... haha... then we go back eat lunch prepared by ray's auntie... thanks a lot auntie~ hehe... we eat fried rice n fried chicken... yummy... kakaka.... after that, we go pahlawan walk walk.... nothing much in there... but truly really big the mall... what oso got inside... for me really nothing for me coz i dont like to shopping... hehe... dinner time.... at the most famous satay celup.... woo... i eat a lot... eat liao rm17... oh... wah... geng oh... 1 stick 50cent, if special 1 is 60cent, meant i eat about 30 sticks oh... geng... haha.... nice to eat... coz cant eat at other place... only melaka got... hehe...after that we go eat "c ham" at the longkang side... every1 say here very famous oh.... eat the c ham... boiled c ham... but not fully boiled... because still got blood inside... yucks... haha... but the sauce so special... nice~ but mom said c ham cannot eat too much... not good to body... and the last activity for the day is movie... we watched twilight new moon.

last day, 27/11/2009 we wake up very late oh.... having break fast at ray's auntie cafe... we eat roti bakar, half boiled eggs, min fan gou and 1 malay style food... donno wat name ad... full... haha... after that we go out... jessica didnt follow us.. because she is sick.... actually we want to go to eat taiwan mee, but full house... then we want go 13 states coffee house at pahlawan... there oso full.... so... weekend dont go melaka... here full there full traffic jam... walao.... kik man.... at last we go to a coffee house to try their thousand layer cheese cake.... woo... so delicious... must try it... but i forget the name of the coffee house ad... then.... ray is going back to KL, so left 3 of us... we go to 13 states coffee house at jonker street.... luckily got seat for us... hehe.... we order 3 different coffee... but for me is the same... because they are coffee... haha... we eat laksa there.... yumyum... very nice.... after having our meal.... we meet up my course mate at jonker street and start the journey of jonker street.... woo.... inilah pasar malam... totally different with the 1 at saberkas.... no fight at all... haha.... got so so so so so many thing to buy.... got so many different food... got wat wat bing tang hu lu, curry fish ball pork ball, got got fried chicken cube, got sushi, got mee kering, mee goreng, dimsum, kok kok candy... haha... too many la... haha... beh tahan... inilah pasar malam.... those in saberkas should think think n improve lah.... haha.... after jonker walk... we go back to pagoh lu... kampung of lian fang.... wuhu~

分手時，不要問

2009-12-18T23:12:00.000+08:00

分手時，沉默是最好的問題，最圓滿的答案。

戀愛是甜蜜的，分手是難免的。

誰不是痛過幾次，哭過幾次，才找到最後的愛。

分手是必經的，但有些問題不必問。

★〞不要問：為什麼要分手？
無論答案是甚麼，都是你難以接受的原因。

★〞不要問：你有沒有愛過我？
愛過如何，未愛過又如何，總之這一刻就是不愛。

★〞不要問：我做錯了些甚麼？
愛不是講對錯，而是講感覺。
相愛是談情，不是講理，當愛的感覺已經不存在，對和錯又可以挽回些甚麼？

★〞不要問：我有甚麼不好？
他有甚麼好？我有甚麼比不上他？
何必逼對方，再一次侮辱你，打擊你的自信心。

★〞不要問：難道你不記得我們以前快樂的日子了麼？
他/她要離開，就是因為他/她要的是現在的快樂，和將來的快樂。

★〞不要問：不如我們重新來過？
這個哀求只會令對方覺得你更可憐、更卑微。

★〞不要問：我們以後還可不可以做朋友？
這樣拖泥帶水，對方只會感到厭煩

分手時，沉默是最好的問題，最圓滿的答案

copy from forum www.ilovemiri.com

4th Station - Alor Star

2009-12-12T09:57:00.002+08:00

ok... i arrive alor star around 3pm.... i wait ah tak come n pick me... haha... he bring me back his house put my stuff n take a bath..... then he bring me to the only mountain in alor star... the shape look like elephant.... and he told me that there are many crystal inside... so many people selling crystal there... after that we went to the museum of paddy... haha... funny la... go museum see paddy haha.... ok la... not bad oso.... coz i never been ther oso... haha... erm... wat else... we go to eat pepper beehoon soup as dinner.... nice to eat.... after that we went back home and take a rest.... going out to have supper arround 10pm+...

2nd and 3rd day, 21 and 22/11, ah tak brought me to many places... haha donno wat istana of wat wat sultan or raja, then wat wat sultan gallery... house of mahathir ah... pekan rabu... wat wat castle near the port to langkawi... and so on la.... not bad not bad... is a relax trip for me... coz eat too much at penang... haha... these few day is for me to relax my stomuch.... hehe...

lastday, 23/11 erm... actually nothing much in alor star... but i still like it... coz very relaxing... and thanks family of ah tak.... really thank you.... make me have such a good trip in alor star....

A UK Drama - Hustle

2009-12-05T00:12:00.005+08:00

hello all my fellow friends.... let ah ming introduce u something.... a new UK drama, should be an old 1... coz it starts show in year 2004, and the latest series is 5th serie, i am not sure is it the last series... and i heard they change the crews in the latest serie... and most of the ppl like the old crews... haha... anyway... i just start to watch this "new" drama, and i am going to finish the 3rd series, dont worry there are only 6 episodes in a serie. i am sure you all are able to catch up... haha... enjoy it... it is worth for you to put your eyes on it... hehe....

3rd Station - Penang

2009-12-01T14:32:00.005+08:00

finally... i got time to write my blog.... haha... today, i am going to share with you my penang trip... i stay at penang for 4 days 3 night, from 17/11 to 20/11... 4 days is not enought for me... still got a lot delicious food i cant have a try.... haha... never mind... at least i tried some... haha... ok... lets start my story...
first day, 17/11 i reach penang at 4am... the bus stop at butterworth... n i wait for the ferry till 5.30am... it was dark n i cant enjoy the view... nvm... the night view oso not bad... full of light... haha... saw n siang was waiting me at ferry port in the penang island, the first place we go is saw's sweet home... we put our stuff at saw's house and have a rest, about 8am, we start our eating journey.... haha... 1st station is sungai pinang, we eat herbal duck mee sua... walao... nice o... the soup so sweet... haha... n we order lo bak... not bad oso... 1st time eat lo bak... the place we eat is under the big tree.... the actual venue i donno la... not mistaken is sungai pinang.... after our breakfast, we go to the most famous kuan ying temple in penang... so ngam... that day is 1st day or 15th of the month for Luna calender, so many ppl ah... of course i got go bai bai la... 1st i reach the temple, something attract my attention, a lot of ppl queue up for something, they said those ppl are "hak yi", beg for good... always got ppl give them food de... at that time, they are queuing for food... after that, we go to gurney plaza to walk walk... it is nice.... kt.... no fight ah... haha... we tried a small tart in a new open bakery house... not bad.... got fruit tart got cheese tart... both nice... very small just like 50 cents... i think girls sure like it... we having our lunch at a food court, but i forget wat place oledi.... we eat curry mee, ice kacang, kuih tiaw goreng, lobakgou and many lagi la... haha... all not bad.... i like the lobak gou most... very delicious la... haha... after lunch, we go to a pet shop near by, it is the biggest pet shop in penang, really big o... so many animal inside, got fish la, dog la, cat la, frog la, mouse la, tortoise la... n many lagi i donno their name..... haha.... some is for display only .... not for sell de o.... time to rest... haha... need to rest for dinner.... haha... so we go back n rest... about 8-9pm, we go out again to have our dinner... where is it? at sunway hotel... haha... course not in the hotel, is at the road side near the sunway hotel... walao... so many thing to eat... we order beef mee la, ikan bakar la, chickenwing la, bubur babi mix la, hokkien char mee la, curry mee la... eat till we kisiao... haha... after that we go to another place just to eat the kaki ayam.... if not mistaken is behind penang free school... the kaki ayam ah... ho jiak dao... beh tahan... donno how to explain la... just delicious... haha... then we walk to the next street to drink "mat dou yao" tong shui... haha... 1 big bowl 3 ppl share... so can u imagine how much food i eat in 1 day? i think i am sot sot ad... 1 day eat so many food... haha...
2nd day, 18/11, we went to eat hokkien mee for break fast... i forget the place ad... i think is behind parkson... u know wat? when we go order, the tauke as us, still 67 to go, can you wait? haha.... gaolat o.... so famous till need to wait... haha... of course we wait... we got time mah... haha... penang hokkien mee, must try... haha... after that, we go to my favour shop, antique shop... it just beside the kuan ying temple, n it was not open yesterday... i bout a lot there, 2 rm5 1 rm10 n 1 SGD 1 and the album for total rm52... worth it? depends.... some ppl say waste money some ppl say untung banyak... next station is the most expensive char kuih tiaw in penang and the most famous aunty bak hu in penang... the char kuih tiaw expensive dao.... walao... betul betul expensive... 6.50 each, n it is very small.... but the prawn very big la... delicious is delicious... but for me... not worth lo... rm6.50 so small plate... but u can try if u come penang... once enough la... u ever hear the fame of auntu bak hu? no? nvm... i show u next time... hehe... i got take picture with aunty bakhu o.... can show u next time... u ever eat cendol on the street? ever heard eat cendol need to pay extra 50 cent just for sitting inside the shop to enjoy the cendol instead to pay rm1.70 to eat on the street? haha... funny... we eat on the street... the taste is nice.... funny hor... i only have 2 word to describe the food, "decious" n "nice"... haha... coz i donno wat to say liao.... butul betul nice la... haha... but u dont go to the wrong shop o... coz all the shop there name is the same... haha... cetak rompak gua... haha.... gek lok si is our next station, big o gek lok si.... very beautiful.... n many tortoise there too... must go c c if u come penang... after that we go home on 6pm... ei? 6pm not dinner time meh? we go back rest geh? haha... today's dinner is different.... today's dinner is mid night duck rice near gek lok si... wahaha... funny o... the tauke nio look sleepy but still want do her business at midnight... dont play play o... eat her duck rice need queue up de o... maijio... how come penang food so funny one... need to wait la, need to pay extra for sit la... haha... this duck rice must try, is ah siang's favourite... why not mine favourite food? coz i like all the food in penang... haha.... after duck rice, we go to eat the longest roti tissue in penang... walao... eh... so long... longer than my table i think.... haha... we shocked first we see it... haha... gaolat... so big la... big till cannot stand.... haha... ok... end of 2nd day....
3rd day, we going to khai song's place, nibong tebal, lunch we eat "ju yok fan", penang laksa, hokkien kering, n 3 special drink made by khai song, got got lychee blended, peanut blended n ice kacang.... then we go to a shopping mall near his area... donno called wat mall ad... dinner oso very very kik.... we go a taman, forget wat taman ad... like a hawker centre, we eat sizzling mee, fish head mee, bak hu pao, oh jien, mee kering in green colour, luluk, and tong shui lo... 1 thing i want to mention, if u like "bai guo" then u must order "bek gueh" tong shui... nyaman o.... not only here la... i think whole penang oso got... i love it so much.... after meal, we go to auto city to limteh.... walao... auto city so yeng... wat car oso got... mazda, mercedes, volks wagon, BMW... many la... n it is just like a big city, wat oso got... many leng lui oso... haha...
last day in penang, 20/11, saw send us to ferry port, we use ferry to go to butterworth, after that we go to eat yam rice "oh bui" at bukit mertajam, nyaman oso.... beside, we eat mi tai mu(bi tai mok) n mee soup there... then i leave penang n ahead to alor star, kedah.

2nd Station - Kelantan

2009-11-17T07:05:00.002+08:00

yohoo.... just leave my second station, Kelantan... where have i been? hahaha... let me explain to u slowly... wakaka... 14/11/2009 moving at 12 noon from terengganu ahead to kelantan.... 1st place i got is the "double dragon temple", the fence have the shape of 2 dragon... very yeng.... then, inside, there is a standing buddha about 108 feet tall.. so tall la... n i only take 1 photo in that temple with ah wee's 2megapixel phone... hahaha... then go to kota bahru to have our lunch... haha this is a very special package... is called wee's package... to have nasi ayam goreng 1st, but unluckily it didnt open... so we go to open air to have golok mee... then eating taupok and taufu fah.... then back to his house..... erm... having dinner at payang serai.... still ok the food there... b4 going home... go to eat satay.... i heard wee said maggie drink a lot of satay sauce the shop... yup... the satay sauce really nice... haha....
2nd day... 15/11/2009... a day with full schedule... auntie wee's nasi kelabu really nice.... is the best nasi kelabu in kelantan... although i never eat other nasi kelabu.... hahaha.... then... u ever eat yu zha kuih with kaya? it taste different.... nice bah.... can found in kelantan.... i heard melaka too... after yu zha kuih.... we go to a free trade zone "pangkalan kubor".... it is near a river, opposite the river is thailand... dont have passport... so canot go there... haiz.... in this day... we go to 2 temple, 1 is with a sitting buddha another is sleeping buddha.... i got the pictures... show you next time... our dinner is nasi lemak puyuh... funny la the puyuh so small for me... not enough la... haha.... but the taste is good... n our supper is bulut... what is bulut? a fish look like snake... nice man... must try it...
last day... 16/11/2009... today very relax... just stay at wee's house... having home dishes... i tried a new style of eating... u ever eat durian with kacang bau n budu with rice? haha... it taste different.... but not bad.... u should have a try if u come here... haha... budu is a sauce can be found in kelantan and terengganu.... i think kelantan's has better taste....
lastly... i want to say wee's family is very kind, friendly n cute... haha... love them so much... haha... ok... that's all for my kelantan trip... now at my 3rd station - penang.... next blog will be coming soon....

1st Station - Kuantan

2009-11-14T10:41:00.003+08:00

yoyo.... i started my journey ad.... the 1st station was Kuantan.... we moving at 10am 12/11/2009 reach kuantan at 1pm.... then we go out our friends' house (Tay's family), Mr. Tay Yee Sing and Mr. Tay Sit Leong.... thanks for their treate..... really thanks a lot... this time is my second time to kuantan.... haha... after we reach their house, Leong bring us to have lunch... a very special min fan gou... the mee with 3 colour... but no 1 order that... we order normal min fan gou... got curry, dried and soup... it taste not bad... haha... after that we to berjaya mega mall a big mall... what oso got... so much better than KT... haha... then we walk to East Coast mall.... they say is the biggest mall in east coast... ya... really big... when i go in i feel like the same at kl.... EC mall like a bit more high class... then... we having dinner at Satay Zul... got many type satay... chicken, beef, lamb and deer meat.... er... chicken n beef not bad.... lamb n deer r very hard to bite... but i like the smell of lamb... hehe... so when u go there, u can order a bit lamb n deer meat satay to try... dont order too much... coz maybe u dont like it... after lunch... we go for movie at EC mall... we watch 2012... wou.. nice movie... n the environment oso not bad... good.... so much better than miri's cinemax.... haha...
2nd day... 13/11/2009 we go to take our breakfast at "peng you" cafe.... then straight go gambang water park... it takes about 45 minute to reach there.... there is a newly developed water park... siang say is the biggest is ASEAN... but in terms of area but the water park... haha.... the ticket is rm20... n the water park is really small for me... haha... there is 2 pool for kids.... so we cannot go there... then left 3 pool for us... 1st is a very very very normal de swimming pool... haha... funny la... nothing to play there... 2nd is the wave pool... this 1 not bad... fun.... can play thieves and police there... haha... last 1... i donno call wat... we need to bring the tube n walk to the top then we cheong from the top to the bottom... haha... lets call it the flushing game... haha... there r 4 type there... n i walk to the top for 7 times... really tired... haha... after that... we go back kuantan about 4pm... having our lunch at "success" cafe... eat dim sum, pau.... cost me rm14... quite expensive... after that we go back sit leong house packing n back to kt... reach at 8.30pm... tired....
*we took a few photos.... but dont have it with me now... after get it will post here...

My day~

2009-11-09T12:26:00.003+08:00

wou wou wou.... my holidays has just started~ wakaka.... 1 month holidays.... what am i going to do? of course go travel lah.... walao... come peninsular for so long.... never got where pun... then this sem break is my very important moment.... at 1st, my plan was kelantan>kedah>penang>ipoh>bahau>melaka>seremban>kuantan. but now have a bit changes... haha... kuantan>cameron>penang>kedah>melaka>muar. after muar... havent decide where to go... maybe kl maybe seremban maybe kuantan again... haha.... hope wont over budget... actually got many place i wish to go... like perlis(maybe will go, coz tak say want bring me go by train, never sit in train b4 leh...) ipoh(heard got many delicious food, dimsum, nga choi gai), kelantan(visit temple, eat nasi kelabu, cow jump, tau pok, nasi ayam "goreng", thailand salad ) johor(but donno got wat special leh...), beside, i want to eat ketam bakar seremban(fu yong siu hai<< this name very funny) and bah kut teh at klang leh... hope can go... hehe...

today is 9/11, my last paper end at 11am, but i start become hantu at 10.30am.... haha... n now onward.... i am a ghost... want do wat oso can... haha... can watch drama till 5am, can play game, can eat till very very full.... can limteh... wat ever la... haha.... for those still have paper.... good luck ah.... haha....

my day.... a new mile stone for ah min.... when is it? in my heart....

My new lover.....

2009-11-02T09:29:00.004+08:00

Signature by: ??
Size: ??mmx??mm

Printed by: ??
Prefix: BDL 2371051
Issue Date: 1989
How I get it: still not in my hand, with Donna now

dang dang dang dang.... ah min got a new lover~ ah min got a new lover~ wahaha.... today is 2nd of november 2009.... i wake up around 8.30am... i on my laptop and sign in my msn messenger.... then suddenly my dear friend, miss donna bong, from canada send me a nudge and tell me that she has found a canada older series 10 dollars bank note... i was stunned about 1 second... haha... the 1st word come out from my mouth is.... "wou!!!" haha.... love it so much.... really wish to hold is now... just like a daddy saw his new born baby.... cant wait to have a hug... haha... wakakaka.... really need to thank miss donna here.... because she promise me wont use that money even though she poor till pokkai... hahaha... when can i get that banknote leh? donno leh... donno when will she come back miri again.... but nvm.... i can wait... sometime waiting is a very hang fuk's thing.... haha...
erm... beside canada, i oso ask marylyn, chongngie help me search for older bank note of great britian pound.... hope they can give me some surprise... haha... oh ya... my two younger cousins too.... they are in australia now... hope they can get something for me... haha...

a nightmare....

2009-10-21T09:23:00.002+08:00

this morning.... i was sleeping.... i dream that someone stole my collection.... wat collection? banknote lo... walao... really scared me... in my dream.... i keep look for my collection... then keep ask my housemate where is my album? diao lo... lost ad lo.... keep scold bad word..... although i just start my hobby last semester... but i really collect a lot of banknotes... if lost i think i will cry o... at last i cry.... but when i cry... i wake up... i just realize that is a dream... phew~ really scared me... haha... n now... i just remember where did i put my album... haha... where is it? this is a secret... haha....

One week at Chagar Hutang

2009-10-12T12:22:00.003+08:00

dada.... this is chagar hutang.... i stay here for 1 week... from 12/9 - 19/9/2009.
this is really a good experience here... patrol at night to check is there any turtle mother laying eggs? nest checking early in the morning, to see is there any baby turtle born and ready to go into the sea to start their journey of life... patrol at day to avoid predators to attack the eggs...
erm... how come ah min will do such a holly job har... haha... maybe ah min do a lot of of bad things last time, now want repay... haha... jkjk... haha...
really love chagar hutang.... enjoy every moments at there... no need to think about home work, assignment, test and many more... haha... no stess, no tension... just relax... haha...
1 week say long not long, say short not short... beside take care of turtles, we can still go for snorkeling, mountain climbing, prawn spa, watching shooting star at night... fun... if i got chance, i will go again... if u c a chance like this, dont miss it...
I LOVE SEATRU~

1973 7th SEAP Games Commemorative Coin

2009-10-08T14:14:00.004+08:00

hey hey.... seems has been a long time i didnt up date my collection.... maybe i quite buzy gua... haha... ok... today i wanna bring u a coin, what coin? it is 7th SEAP GAMES 1973 commemorative coin... ok... erm... i dont have much information about this coin... i get it from my mom.... if not mistaken, i think is my youngest uncle buy it.... but donno why suddenly become mine... haha... if got chance must go visit my uncle in singapore.... is very hard to c him now... he only come back every "cheng meng" i has been 3 year at terengganu during cheng meng... so... hard to c him... haha... hope got chance to c him next cheng meng... donno where will i be during next cheng meng? brunei? sabah? kuching? singapore? peninsular? even myself oso donno... haha... lets looks forward...

马斯洛的需要层次理论(copy from internet)

2009-10-07T12:42:00.001+08:00

生理上的需要是人们最原始、最基本的需要，如吃饭、穿衣、住宅、医疗等等。若不满足，则有生命危险。这就是说，它是最强烈的不可避免的最底层需要，也是推动人们行动的强大动力。显然，这种生理需要具有自我和种族保护的意义，以饥渴为主，是人类个体为了生存而必不可少的需要。当一个人存在多种需要时，例如同时缺乏食物、安全和爱情，总是缺乏食物的饥饿需要占有最大的优势，这说明当一个人为生理需要所控制时，那么其他一切需要都被推到幕后。
　　安全的需要要求劳动安全、职业安全、生活稳定、希望免于灾难、希望未来有保障等，具体表现在：①物质上的：如操作安全、劳动保护和保健待遇等②经济上的：如失业、意外事故、养老等③心理上的：希望解除严酷监督的威胁、希望免受不公正待遇，工作有应付能力和信心。安全需要比生理需要较高一级，当生理需要得到满足以后就要保障这种需要。每一个在现实中生活的人，都会产生安全感的欲望、自由的欲望、防御的实力的欲望。
　　社交的需要也叫归属与爱的需要，是指个人渴望得到家庭、团体、朋友、同事的关怀爱护理解，是对友情、信任、温暖、爱情的需要。社交的需要生理和安全需要更细微、更难捉摸。它包括：①社交欲。希望和同事保持友谊与忠诚的伙伴关系，希望得到互爱等②归属感。希望有所归属，成为团体的一员，在个人有困难时能互相帮助，希望有熟识的友人能倾吐心里话、说说意见，甚至发发牢骚。而爱不单是指两性间的爱，而是广义的，体现在互相信任、深深理解和相互给予上，包括给予和接受爱。社交的需要与个人性格、经历、生活区域、民族、生活习惯、宗教信仰等都有关系，这种需要是难以察悟，无法度量的。
　　尊重的需要可分为自尊、他尊和权力欲三类，包括自我尊重、自我评价以及尊重别人。与自尊有关的，如自尊心、自信心，对独立、知识、成就、能力的需要等。尊重的需要也可以如此划分：①渴望实力、成就、适应性和面向世界的自信心、以及渴望独立与自由；②渴望名誉与声望。声望为来自别人的尊重、受人赏识、注意或欣赏。满足自我尊重的需要导致自信、价值与能力体验、力量及适应性增强等多方面的感觉，而阻挠这些需要将产生自卑感、虚弱感和无能感。基于这种需要，愿意把工作做得更好，希望受到别人重视，借以自我炫耀，指望有成长的机会、有出头的可能。显然，尊重的需要很少能够得到完全的满足，但基本上的满足就可产生推动力。这种需要一旦成为推动力，就将会令人具有持久的干劲。
　　自我实现的需要是最高等级的需要。满足这种需要就要求完成与自己能力相称的工作，最充分地发挥自己的潜在能力，成为所期望的人物。这是一种创造的需要。有自我实现需要的人，似乎在竭尽所能，使自己趋于完美。自我实现意味着充分地、活跃地、忘我地、集中全力全神贯注地体验生活。成就感与成长欲不同，成就感追求一定的理想，往往废寝忘食地工作，把工作当是一种创作活动，希望为人们解决重大课题，从而完全实现自己的抱负。
　　
　　在马斯洛看来，人类价值体系存在两类不同的需要，一类是沿生物谱系上升方向逐渐变弱的本能或冲动，称为低级需要和生理需要。一类是随生物进化而逐渐显现的潜能或需要，称为高级需要。
　　人都潜藏着这五种不同层次的需要，但在不同的时期表现出来的各种需要的迫切程度是不同的。人的最迫切的需要才是激励人行动的主要原因和动力。人的需要是从外部得来的满足逐渐向内在得到的满足转化。
　　在高层次的需要充分出现之前，低层次的需要必须得到适当的满足。
　　低层次的需要基本得到满足以后，它的激励作用就会降低，其优势地位将不再保持下去，高层次的需要会取代它成为推动行为的主要原因。有的需要一经满足，便不能成为激发人们行为的起因，于是被其他需要取而代之。
　　这五种需要不可能完全满足，愈到上层，满足的百分比愈少。
　　任何一种需要并不因为下一个高层次需要的发展而告消失，各层次的需要相互依赖与重叠，高层次的需要发展后，低层次的需要仍然存在，只是对行为影响的比重减轻而已。
　　高层次的需要比低层次的需要具有更大的价值。热情是由高层次的需要激发。人的最高需要即自我实现就是以最有效和最完整的方式表现他自己的潜力，惟此才能使人得到高峰体验。
　　人的五种基本需要在一般人身上往往是无意识的。对于个体来说，无意识的动机比有意识的动机更重要。对于有丰富经验的人，通过适当的技巧，可以把无意识的需要转变为有意识的需要。
　　马斯洛还认为：在人自我实现的创造性过程中，产生出一种所谓的“高峰体验”的情感，这个时候是人处于最激荡人心的时刻，是人的存在的最高、最完美、最和谐的状态，这时的人具有一种欣喜若狂、如醉如痴、销魂的感觉。
　　试验证明，当人呆在漂亮的房间里面就显得比在简陋的房间里更富有生气、更活泼、更健康；一个善良、真诚、美好的人比其他人更能体会到存在于外界中的真善美。当人们在外界发现了最高价值时，就可能同时在自己的内心中产生或加强这种价值。总之，较好的人和处于较好环境的人更容易产生高峰体验。
　　
　　马斯洛(Abraham Harold Maslow, 1908-1970)是一位美国心理学家，早期曾经从事动物社会心理学的研究，1940年在美国社会心理学杂志上发表《灵长类优势品质和社会行为》一文。之后转入人类的社会心理学研究。1943年出版了《人类动机的理论》，1954年出版《动机与人格》，1962年出版了《存在心理学导言》一书。马斯洛的观点属于人本主义心理学，其哲学基础是存在主义。
　　
　　评：由于我对需要的看法是来自存在需求和发展需求，划分的方法不同，导致我对马斯洛的需要层次理论有不同的看法和意见。总的来说，划分为生物、安全、社交、尊重、自我实现五个层次也是可以的，有其科学性。而且其精髓在于激励人们的主动性创造性，这是相当进步的。我所不赞成的主要来自这几个方面：
　　1、低级需要与高级需要的划分。我认为，作为生物的本能的需要是低级需要，这是在自然界中生存选择形成的；作为人的需要是高级需要，这是在人类社会中形成发展或被强化的，通常可以在教育的影响下发展。
　　2、各种层次之间的相互关系。事实上，信念可以超越各种包括生理、安全、社交、他尊等需要，这是自我实现、自尊、自我评价等需要带来的。爱的需要同样可以克服包括生理、安全、尊重的需要等。
　　3、有很多需要不会被满足，会纵深发展。比如爱无止境。
　　4、需要并不是按级发展的，会产生越级现象。但这不是例外，而是很正常的，常发性的。

Pick Me

2009-10-01T12:36:00.002+08:00

this is very very interesting video that i found in facebook... PICK ME... if u want people to choose u? u must give other people a good reason to choose you... after u watch this video... u will know what i mean... PICK ME!

If You Never Fail, You Never Learn

2009-09-23T12:56:00.003+08:00

ok... this is a motivation video i saw in my facebook.... it is really nice n meaningful... n i need to mention here it is bluefishtv.com copyright. come n have a look... maybe u can get something new...

my 1st time....

2009-09-11T19:41:00.005+08:00

wah.... ah ming's 1st time wor... geng o... haha... wat so special? of course special lah... ah ming 1st time invited for an opening ceremony wor.... maijio.... i am geng de o... u c who is beside meh... mai jio.... YB Dr. Hou Kok Chung(4th from right) leh... my pangkat oso not small leh... haha.... casper... this is so called uni life la... tell u early liao... must study form 6 then can go uni... c... my life so special... haha... dont jealous ah.... wakaka....

A new star born in 378 Gong Badak~

2009-09-10T19:21:00.003+08:00

enjoy this damn funny exciting short video.... i think compete with 15Malaysia o... haha...

Merdeka Merdeka....

2009-08-31T14:13:00.003+08:00

Description: Malaysia 12th Series 2008 RM 50 with 50 Anniversary Logo

Signature by: Tan Sri Dato' Sri Dr. Zeti Akhtar Aziz
Size: 145mmx69mm

Printed by: ??
Prefix: AA 1582604
Issue Date: 2007/2008
How I get it: Exchange with Mr Wee Phit Siang

hey hey... today is 31/8/2009 52th anniversary... then i think i should put something related with it... i search for a long time... i think this is the most suitable for today's topic... the RM 50 banknote with 50 anniversary logo... what else... erm... let me tell how do i get this money la... haha... last or last 2 semester... ah wee say he dont have money ad.... want use that money oledi... then he ask me want exchange or not? haha... of course i terus say yes without thinking... haha.... at that time i thought he really very poor ad.... so kesian.... but hor... now i just know a theory.... don't judge a book with its cover... it is true.... now only i know that he is the richest ppl in my home... mai jio o... if his cash change to 50 cents coins can make u die o... haha...

Malaya & British Borneo $5 banknote

2009-08-30T10:40:00.003+08:00

Description: Malaya & British Borneo $5 banknote (Queen Elizabeth) (1953)

Signature by: W.C. Taylor
Size: 125mmx72mm

Printed by: Printer Waterlow & Sons Ltd.
Prefix: A/1 742315
Issue Date: 21st March 1953
How I get it: from my mom

it has been a long time i didnt update my blog oh.... wou... so busy leh.... erm.... today just finish 1 test.... actually got 2 tests de... but 1 put aeroplane... haiz... wat else... erm... fyp... how to do fyp?? who can teach me... very hard lah fyp.... if dont do cannot grad leh... now half sem pass ad... still havent start do.... how? wait die?? arrgghh..... this wednesday n friday got another 2 test... hope can overcome it easily... yeah... today can relax... tomolo holidays....

Genting Story

2009-08-21T23:31:00.006+08:00

Antique of antiques

2009-08-16T07:24:00.003+08:00

today wanna show this thing.... MARTELL..... haha.... can u imagine how old is it? if not mistaken.... more than 30 years ad... wah.... long time hor.... why suddenly want show this pic leh today? becoz we talk about this last night... haha.... my friend tell how to differentiate how old is a wine... how? hehe... need to see the wooden item which stuck at the bottle mouth there.... donno how to call that ad... haha... he say the wooden thing semakin rosak mean the wine semakin old... semakin nyamai o... he still say want go my house drink this wine.... i tell him wait long long la... haha... this is part of my collection too... but not major la... my major still bank notes... haha....

Malaya & British Borneo $1 banknote

2009-08-15T09:06:00.002+08:00

Description: Malaya & British Borneo $1 banknote (Queen Elizabeth) (1953)

Signature by: W.C. Taylor
Size: 121mmx63mm

Printed by: Printer Waterlow & Sons Ltd.
Prefix: A/31 325794
Issue Date: 21st March 1953
How I get it: from my mom

Childhood Memory 4

2009-08-13T08:46:00.004+08:00

temple temple... this is the god that we bai bai at my grandma house... guan yin niang niang... is my grandma favour god... she used to pray every afternoon.... besides, is dua bek gong... is my mom n my big uncle's favour god... every 1st n 15th of the month must go the temple near fish market there bai bai.... then is tu di gong... very common god... if a family is Buddhist and got make a temple for praying at home, there will be a tian gong and a tu di gong... they r 1 set de.... haha... sounds like McD set meal... haha... next is tian gong lo... just like tu di gong... very common de... beside that.... got a thailand god.... but i donno wat name.... not so familiar with thailand god.... hehe..... lastly is the nenek moyang... hehe.... is not like we see in hong kong drama... every nenek moyang have a place.... now modern 1 is all in 1... hehe... written as this "all the nenek moyang of xxx surname"... like can save many space o... hehe...

Childhood Memory 3

2009-08-12T10:46:00.005+08:00

childhood memory.... used to play here.... but i forget how to call this.... "qiu qian" in chinese i know la... haha... when all cousins come grandma house must play this thing de haha.... now all grow up lo... not playing it anymore... left for next generation.... haha...

my grandma's garden.... she used to do the gardening job every evening.... really a good grandma although she always scold me... haha... i still remember that i help her get water from longkang n to siram the flower... haha.... luckily not vegetable la... haha... who dare to eat o... haha... she very pro in cooking leh.... i remember she know how to make nian gao, chinese dumpling, tang yuan, n many more la... really delicious.... but now.... old ad lo... cannot move liao.... need her children to look after her....

King George VI $10 banknote

2009-08-10T13:32:00.004+08:00

Description: Malaya $10 King George VI banknote (1941)

Signature by: H. Weisberg
Size: 153mmx83mm

Printed by: Waterlow & Sons Ltd.
Prefix: E/43 038345
Issue Date: 1st July 1941
How I get it: from my mom

wou wou wou.... after $1, now is $10.... the value is 10 times more... haha... there is only 1 question come from mind.... how come my mom can keep such a large value of money at that time.... as i know that most of the people was having hard life at that moment... including my mom and her family... so... really feel weird how she get it... haha... anyway... it is in my hand now... haha... so happy.... haha....
ok... talk something about my life... erm.... i think many people know that ASNB just offer 100 billion units amanah saham.... this is the 1st time i queue for this... erm.... new experience... haha... beside that... this is the 1st time i hold cash money with total amount of 5 digits!!!! damn.... so so so.... so kik man....
wat else... erm... ok... going to have test this thursday... but donno the format at all.... next week is holidays~ haha... going to genting.... haha... jogoya too... haha...

King George VI $1 banknote

2009-08-04T13:01:00.007+08:00

Description: Malaya $1 King George VI banknote (1941)

Signature by: H. Weisberg
Size: 124mmx64mm

Printed by: Waterlow & Sons Ltd.
Prefix: Q/32 007468
Issue Date: 1st July 1941
How I get it: from my mom

yohoo... so long time no up load my blog liao... haha... now this 1 is an antique leh... haha.... hard to get de leh.... luckily my mom got keep for me... so lucky la... love my mom so much... haha....

besides.... last week i bought $3 singapore dollar with only 8 ringgit... haha... 2 bird(singapore 2nd series) and 1 ship(singapore 3rd series)...

last night my friend call me and tell me that he found the RM 50's ali abu hassan's signature's bank note and rm5's paper banknote(recently is polymer)....
and then..... another friend found me ah $10 singapore ship series... haha... so happy lah today... so now i got so many ships la($1,$2,$5,$10)...

Thai Fair at Giant Terengganu

2009-07-29T15:27:00.003+08:00

hey hey.... we went to the thai fair last night..... at that time only i know how professional is ah wee.... he can speak THAI to the taukenio leh... maijio o.... and then.... we test the thai food there... not bad.... becoz it is free..... no la... actually is ah pang and ah beng bought me.... ppl like so kiam siap like me wont buy de la.... actually we go there after our lunch mah... so full la... besides.... satay at cabang tiga really not bad...

ok... back to the thai fair.... i bought nothing there but money... wat?? buy money? ya.... ur eyes have no problem... i bought money at there.... i just bought 3 pieces of bank notes and 1 coin only about RM23.... what is so special with them? haha.... sure got ppl scold me siao kia... use money buy money... haha.... ok... i bought bank note with face value of SGD 1,2 and 5... if convert to RM is about RM19.xx.... the bank notes are singapore 3rd sereis, oso called as ship series... haha....

there is another coins is malaysia 30 years merdeka anniversary coin.... yeah... happy....

busy day....

2009-07-28T19:05:00.002+08:00

it has been a long time i didnt update my blog.... too busy la.... wanna prepare training report, presentation, searching for final year project.... many la.... arrgghh.... sien.... besides, the line is sucks these few day.... sien.... please be patient... i will update my blog when i am free....
wat else.... ok... im going to genting highland during next holidays... this is the 1st time i go genting... so exciting la... hehe....

Relationship Chart in UMT

2009-07-20T12:28:00.004+08:00

so sad.... i have no true friend in my uni.... haiz... so sad.... who can be my real friend?? i need real friends... hehe.... if u r interested on me.... please contact me through the chat box at the side... haha....

ready to attack!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2009-07-18T14:11:00.003+08:00

haiz.... is saturday again.... need to wait for another saturday again.... why? becoz the manga release on saturday normally... mean i just read the latest manga... then need to wait for 1 more week for the next episode... haiz.... wat a long period of time... haiz.... wat can i do during this long time? repeat and recall wat i had read... haiz....

My favour comic

2009-07-16T10:11:00.004+08:00

today let me introduce the comic that i like to read most.... it is BLEACH!!! weird right? bleach is something use to clean clothes right? haha.... i oso donno why.... this is a japanese comic... very nice one... not like others, this comic got 3rd part, which mean they they neither good guy or bad guy.... they are pro with mask.... haha.... but if u read carefully actually there are 4 party oh....
good guy, bad guy, good guy with bad guys' ability and bad guy with good guys' ability... but bad guy with good guy's ability is actually bad guys' fighter.... so categorize as bad guy lo... ;p
people in this pic is the 3rd party... based on the story flow... i think they are helping the good guy gua.... becoz........ too long story.... u go read urself la... haha....

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2009-07-15T11:13:00.003+08:00

Advertisment time.... haha.... my friend, yh, just design a new tee.... for more information please go and have a look at his blog. http://www.soulwithinus.blogspot.com/

Childhood Memory 2

2009-07-14T11:40:00.003+08:00

deng deng.... today wanna talk about my childhood memory again... this is the front yard, oso the parking area in my aunty house... i still remember my mom used to ask me to sweep the front yard... very sien de leh... hate it so much.... but now think back ah... wah... not bad la... got learn how to sweep the floor, if not ah.... now staying outside will feel lazy to sweep the floor leh... now i still lazy la... some time when i free i will sweep the floor once.... need to see my mood de... haha...

when i was a kid, used to play with causins here... wat oso can play... not like nowadays de kid... play psp la... ps3 la... online game.... when old time, we play stone la... hide and seek la... jump aeroplane la... steal neighbour's fruit la... flying kites.... haha.... so fun... now so old liao... cannot play liao lo... haiz... like a chinese song, memory can only be recall....

Dada.... The real banana money!!!

2009-07-13T16:13:00.004+08:00

Description: Malaya Japanese Occupation 50 cents Banknote (1942-1945)
Signature by: -
Size: 120mmx57mm

Printed by: The Japanese Government
Prefix: MQ
Issue Date: -
How I get it: from my mom

the real banana money final appears in my blog. this banana money has a face value of 50 cents. if i am not mistaken, there is a small hole at the bottom chinese word there. really old ad this money. this money very useful i think, next time when got kid, can tell the story to my kid, how hard is our ah gong ah mah's life. this bank note can be a prove. haha.

1942-1945, my parents still donno at where leh. lucky our ah gong ah mah know how to protect themselves at the moment. if not ah. i wont be here liao lo. hehe.

Banana money

2009-07-11T12:02:00.006+08:00

Description: Malaya Japanese Occupation 10 cents Banknote (1942-1945)

Signature by: -

Size: 106mmx51mm
Printed by: The Japanese Government

Prefix: M/AN

Issue Date: -

How I get it: from my mom

do u know wat is banana money? money made by banana? haha...this is banana money lo... becoz there r banana tree on it... haha... becoz this value too small... no place to draw the banana tree bah... haha.... maybe tomolo lah.. i show one got banana money have value of 50 cents...